We are 5/6 days out (haven’t looked at my count down in a while lol) and one of my bms has now decided she thinks me letting everyone choose hair and makeup for themselves is an inconvienece for her. I said simple formal style I don’t care if it’s up or down. And makeup should be neutral and natural. Other than that go at it. And she just berated me for a half an hour on how if she had known this before hand she wouldn’t have gone with my h and MUA Beacuase ITS “too expensive” to not have a choice and structure for that amount of money. I said you didn’t have to do hand m-up with the same people you could’ve gone elsewhere and just shown up to the ceremony and just be happy.
this is the first time she’s ever asked about hair and makeup decisions and now that it’s too late to change things for her she’s backed me into a corner so now I look like the bad guy for making her come up with an idea for her hair and makeup. I’m sorry you don’t like choices. I offered to give suggestions and she shut me down and continued to complain.
im at my wits end. I really need to just get over this but it’s so hard. I let them choose for this reason. Because I knew someone would complain if I told everyone to do the same thing. This is how dress shopping went too. “Well you should’ve just picked one dress and told whoever didn’t like it to suck it.” No I wanted options so no one felt uncomfortable and all I got was more berating on how this isn’t normal.
Ugh.... help me not lose my sanity
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