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Brianna
Just Said Yes June 2021

Deciding to Elope and plan something small

Brianna, on July 2, 2019 at 5:01 PM Posted in Planning 1 5
Sooooo originally when we got engaged i wanted to elope but FH wanted the whole 9 yards of a wedding...so we found a venue, d.j, photographer. But now we have an opportunity to buy a house and to buy a business. So i told him that we either do those things or a wedding because doing both is way too much financially. He was still iffy on it so I had him weigh the pros and cons and now hes finally on the same page with me to just elope and possibly plan a party next year to celebrate.
Im so relieved now because i rather pay for things that will better our life and future and spending money for one day isn't my thing, but im not knocking those who are all for it!
Im more excited to do this then an actual wedding because its less stress on me. Cheers to happiness and love!

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Latest activity by Jessica, on July 3, 2019 at 7:19 AM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Sounds like you’ve made a decision that is best for you and your FH. You can always have a party later. Congratulations!
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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Congrats on the house and business! I’m totally with you on not spending tons on one day.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Way to go! Sounds like a wonderful plan (and you'll still get a beautiful elopement). Buy a nice dress and keep it for your reception whenever you guys host it.

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Congratulations on the house and business, Brianna!

    I’m happy you and your FS were able to come to a compromise Smiley smile

    Where are you thinking of eloping to?

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  • Jessica
    Just Said Yes February 2021
    Jessica ·
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    Totally and absolutely care where you’re coming from about this. So me and my fiancé decided to get married by the court this year just to make it legal because we are trying to get into a house this year in August and so we decided to have an actual wedding next year just nothing too big. We decided to do an actual wedding be that he is an only child and all of his family Would love to witness it.
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