Co-ed bachelor/bachelorette party?!

If you are in a relationship, you are not single. If you are engaged, you definitely are not single. So no, I don't see a bachelorette party as the "last night being single"

1. Jacks didn't answer her question and it's not like a simple disagreement. She straight up called her rude and when others started posting to actually answer the question and not acknowledge or agree with Jacks, Jacks came in again about how rude it was. She made it a point to call her out in being rude.

2. If Jacks was being reasonable, why was the comment removed? Just because it was flagged? WW admin jumped on the thread to address JACKS actions about criticizing the person.

3. Am I the only one that didn't take what she said about the gifts literally? She said she didn't care about the engagement/Bridal shower parties. If I were invited to the engagement, Bridal shower, bachelorette, and the wedding, I'd approach them getting all smaller gifts. If I were just invited to the wedding being just as close to her, there would be a bigger gift. Her intent was good.

4. I like how people jumped on here not to answer her question but to argue the argument in the comments. THIS is the problem. She came here for advice on a combined bachelor/bachelorette party and is getting told she's rude for something planned WITH her BP and sensitive for being called a gift grabbing idiot. Unreal.

Everything @Olivia said. @Malei you're new on here, but there are people who have been active for years. Stick around and learn before you jump on people, that definitely won't result in you getting the most out of the forums.