Can't take the leap and commit to any wedding plans

This is normal! There are just SO many options. Maybe don't get rid of those options. Instead start putting down pros and cons of them. I had to make a list from each venue that we liked. Then I finally narrowed down to the one that just made sense and really popped out apart from the others. Try to dig deep in terms of cost, how much time will go into creating that vision you want, ask yourself if you are willing to start from scratch or would you rather go with a venue that provides a good package, etc.

Girl i am going through it too. In my case my FH always reminds me of thinking of what I want and not what i think others might like.


Think of you too and each of your personalities. What would make you both comfortable and happy on that day? Is this or that idea really you?
Hope it helps, i think for certain choices that mindset really helps narrow things down a bit.

I definitely feel you - there were several different wedding visions we would have been happy with! ❤️ For us the big decisions that helped shape our wedding were deciding on the location and how big of a wedding we wanted - really nailing down the who, when, and where!

Here's a great article you should check out on how to kick off planning with your partner:

7 Things Couples Should Agree on Before Wedding Planning

Oh hey this is us haha

We are basically going between 2 wedding ideas but canʻt decide at all haha

Have you started going to venues yet? I think once you can visualize it in the space it will help you figure out exactly what you want to do. And I would suggest going to a few venues that don't fit anything your thinking, we ended up with a style venue then what we thought we wanted but once we saw it and found out what their package included it was a no brainer.

View Quoted Comment Yeah, the venue really helps you focus. Once you visit a few you’ll start to understand the direction you want to go in. It’s a big undertaking and can be overwhelming to start.