Cancel wedding

View Quoted Comment Hello, mine is 08/29 and we did send our invites already (it is a littlee early, but our wedding is in a neighboring state so we wanted to give people extra time). We did add a note that we will be monitoring covid & make additional announcements closer to our date. We have the same messaging on our wedding website for those who chose to look there.


Who would have thought we would have to consider something like this when starting to plan our special days?
Stay safe & congratulations on your engagement!

Absolutely not! I wouldn't even consider postponing until the end of July. Mines in 9.24.20. I just booked my dessert vendor yesterday. I am making sure all my contracts include a clause around refunds if things are postponed or canceled due to COVID.

I have commented back when this post first started. Has anyone changed their mind yet. Mine wedding is 11/7/20 have not thought of changing but I do have a plan B which is to push the wedding to February 20th or 27th but that wont be decided until the end of July.

View Quoted Comment My wedding is August 1. I am not sure either. Me and my fiance are ready thinking about going to the court house and get married and then maybe later after everything settled down. We will get the family together and do something together

View Quoted Comment Mine is also in August and we are in FL and are really thinking about pushing it back as far as possible. Considering that everyone is traveling to us it may be restrictive issues that may get in the way. Not to mention some of our guests are older. Praying that this is over really quick. Stay safe!!

Our wedding was june 20 2020 and we just made the decision to postpone it and we already have the new date for November 21st 2020 hopefully everything will be better by then.

Hello Ladies,

My wedding is on October 23rd and i am panicking a little. Everything has been on hold for a month now and so we have not booked our honeymoon nor started on our RVPS (bachelor remains on hold as well). As they say things will get worse before it gets better, we are already almost half way through the month and I still have not been able to go dress shopping. I do not have my center pieces picked out either. I don't know what to do. Fiancee and I have already talked about moving the wedding to 2021. HELP!!!!!!!!!

If you are in September stay calm. I’m a June and I had to postpone and everyone is postponing to aug or later. We went to June of next year but September brides you SHOULD MAYBE be good. I wouldn’t touch it right now, if you move it then another bride might take it and then you moved it for nothing...

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We have officially postponed to 08/28/21. As hard as it was it needed to be done. A lot of our friends/families are flying in internationally and from other states so it was best to push it back as far as possible. Our head count was 60 and everyone wants to share that moment. Our venue/vendors were so helpful in allowing us the opportunity to push back our date as far as a year. We are forever grateful. Plus I am on the frontline with this virus and there is but so much stress and anxiety I can take. One less thing to worry about do my family and I can remain safe.

We actually ended up postponing our October 2020 wedding until May 2021 We felt it was more considerate of us to hold it off with so many people loosing their jobs and/or family members and since we are from NY and got hit hard it just made sense to wait. Def sucks but we had not even sent our save the dates yet, how do we send out save the dates with everything going on you know. Good Luck!!

I am mines will be next year

View Quoted Comment Thanks Angela! I think I’ll do the same and add a personal note about the Covid situation. I wasn’t stressed or nervous but now am getting concerned. I really hope things can be okay by August!

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We are not planning on postponing but can’t say the unknown has not been emotional

I would cancel until they have a vaccine. Scientists are saying that will take around 8-12 months.

I can relate i am in the same boat. we had scheduled a September 12, wedding and made the decision this week to change the date as things are still too uncertain and don’t want to risk it so it’s now either May or September 2021 wedding❤️

View Quoted Comment I’m 10/03/20 and we’re now talking about a plan b. Too much uncertainty and not knowing what can happen as there’s a lot of talk about a possible surge during the fall. I think a plan b would be less stressful

View Quoted Comment Ours is scheduled for 10/03/20 and we now starting talking about a plan b. We ordered dresses but everything is closed down. Could be backed up. We have family coming in from CA so we need to be mindful of people traveling during this time. We just sent out save the dates and are thinking of now sending out a “postponing” card in a month once we decide what to do. My friend who is a planner said to move it to 2021

We had to change our date from April 24th to September 18th and I'm hoping that we won't have to reschedule again.

We postponed. A very important family member was called out of retirement to go back to work in the ICU in London. We can't imagine not having her with us. So starting over. . . thinking late 2021 or early 2022.

View Quoted Comment Hi Sarah, I heard in one of the addresses from the governor it will be 12-18 months until there is a vaccine.
We are thinking we will reschedule post the 18 month mark just to be safe. We have people travelling internationally and want to be sure travelling will be ok.