Cancel wedding

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View Quoted Comment We had to cancel 😭 no reschedule date because we’re riding it out and not sure how bad it’s going to affect our friends and family. Too many people are losing jobs and lives over here, so we’ll focus on the wedding when the time is right.

Ours is in October, were still planning for it being then. We have discussed the possibility of it having to be pushed back. Just wait a few more weeks/ month and see how everything is by then. Just have a bacl up plan in mind.

View Quoted Comment I am so sorry and I pray this is all over soon.

Just contacted my venue to get guidance on postponing - we're set for 9/12/2020, but we'd hopefully decide in June before sending the invites. The action doesn't make me feel too stressed (yet), but some people's reactions are having a minor effect. Lots of really squishy science being thrown around.


It's like someone trying to convince you to take 3 shots and drive home. "You're so young! You can handle 3 shots. You live so close! If you drink them and drive really quickly, you'll be home before you're drunk!"... Like, what? Why are people trying to convince me to be irresponsible - feels a bit off.

Mine is August 22nd! I’m not planning on reassessing anything until mid May when the public gathering ban is lifted. Hopefully by then we’ll have a better understanding if things are getting better or worse and can go from there. Things are changing so much by the day so it’s no use stressing yourself out this much with it being in September. Thinking of all of the spring and early summer bride-to-be’s! Hang in there-we’ll get through this!


These threads are very therapeutic for me- I’m glad I’m not the only one feeling all of these things!

Hi All! My original date was April 18th but we had to postpone to December 6th. Better safe than sorry but I have faith all will be back to normal by the end of April!

My wedding is scheduled for September 12, and we are still moving forward as planned. I don't think we can make a call 6 months away, as things are changing so quickly. China's curve has been 10-12 weeks and didn't take the precautionary measures that we have taken, so that gives me hope. Fingers crossed it clears up by then!!!

My wedding is scheduled for September 5th and yes, I have considered rescheduling, but for the moment we are just waiting things out and seeing how this all plays out. I do think that even as government imposed restrictions loosen, there will still be concerns from guests who will be traveling. As much as I want to celebrate with my friends and family, what is most important to me is their health and safety. In the meantime, I will focus on planning things that don't require additional financial commitment. I may not be able to order my invitations for the time being but I can continue to plan my ceremony, choose our music and work on my vows. Wishing you all good health in this uncertain time! ❤

Mine is September 6th, 2020, we aren’t planning on canceling right now so we are still preparing as if nothing is going on. It has been hard to get in contact with people and prepare certain things since everything is closed down, but I am praying for the best for all of us!

Absolutely not. If things are still like this in June, then yes

Have a back up plan, and wait until a month out to decide. We just moved our April wedding to September 5th. I think it’ll be ok by then.

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Girl, I feel you. I haven't had to change my date, but I am feeling less excited because I can't do any of the wedding things right now (dress alterations, hair/make-up trial. etc.). I can't wait until this is all over with and we can be excited about our weddings again!

View Quoted Comment I’m Sept 6th too!! We were supposed to have our catering and cake tastings this weekend - traveling to Santa Fe from Austin, TX - but obvs we can’t do that now with the businesses closed. I haven’t ordered STDs yet, was finalizing addresses when all this started and now I’m torn. I feel behind in planning and that making everyone travel on Labor Day on top of all this might be too much.

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Yes! I completely understand your pain. I was supposed to have my food and cake tasting two weeks from now and just like yours, it's not going to happen. I'm nervous that either the wedding will not be able to happen at all OR if it can happen, that I won't be properly prepared and have to rush at the last minute not to lose all the money we have put into it already. Im crossing my fingers for the both of us!

Listen - I completely understand your concern as a September bride. but consider us April, May and June brides. I think you have less to worry about in the grand scheme of things.

View Quoted Comment Same boat. Sep 6th and thinking all the exact same things especially with so much older family coming from out use the US. We were supposed to fly back for our tasting and other wedding plans in May.

Im not getting married till this Halloween but im not going to lie I have been getting nervous too... I have been having a string of bad luck and its been getting to me lately... :/

September 19th here and NO. at this moment we haven’t cancelled.

View Quoted Comment Date twin!!!!!!! Thanks for your words!