Okay, basically I'm trying to condense a rant. My fiancé bought me a BEAUTIFUL aquamarine engagement ring and I love it. It's perfect. But, it sits too close to my finger for a band to fit flush. Even curved bands are very awkward. (it's an oval shaped stone.) I just got back from Helzberg to talk about options. They told me that the setting can't be altered, so I either have to pick other setting or have an awkward curved band soldered on. Is this true, or are they just trying to sell me expensive and ugly rings?