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Cake Smash - Yea or Nay?

Sinéad, on November 5, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 87
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Where do you stand on the cake smash debate? Is it a must-have tradition that you are excited to include, or do you feel that it’s simply making a mess?

Will you and your new spouse be doing a cake smash? Yea or nay?


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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Nay. Aha I don't want stuff to get on my face or dress
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  • Lacy
    Dedicated October 2020
    Lacy ·
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    My FH has two sons who will be 13 and 6 and our wedding day. We plan to include them in our cake cutting, and instead of smashing the cake in each others' faces (I'll be damned if the makeup I pay good money for gets ruined), we are each going to surprise attack the boys and smash the cake in their faces.

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  • L
    Lady ·
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    Nope, i think it's tacky.

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  • Lauren
    Super September 2019
    Lauren Online ·
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    Nay! I paid $200 for makeup, it would be a waste to ruin it! I always think the cake smash is so tacky!

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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP ·
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    Absolutely not!!! It feels so disrespectful to smash food in someone's face especially when the sharing of the cake should represent your promise to feed each other's needs in your life together.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey Online ·
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    Nay. Not happening.

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  • M
    Expert September 2020
    Marcia ·
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    This is a big no from me.
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  • Arkilia
    Super October 2020
    Arkilia ·
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    Nay, after all the time and effort put in to look fabulous I refuse to have cake ruin my look.
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  • Cyndy
    Rockstar May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Definitely a nah. When you spend all that money on makeup and hair that’s crazy.
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  • Yoice
    Rockstar March 2019
    Yoice ·
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    Big NO for me! I just don’t see the point on ruining make up, hair and dress in this silly tradition.
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  • Cristy
    Rockstar May 2020
    Cristy ·
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    Oh hell no!! I'm not spending a fortune on pro hair and makeup just to have it ruined by cake!

    My FH knows he better not do it, or the day will not end well.

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  • Blair
    Expert October 2020
    Blair ·
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    I've already told my FH I didn't want cake smashed in my face and he agreed.

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  • Ashley
    Expert November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    No cake smash, but booping the nose with a little frosting makes for a sweet moment.

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  • Ashley
    Beginner October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    That is a great idea !!!
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  • Jill
    Devoted May 2020
    Jill ·
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    This is a hard no for us

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  • Ashley
    Devoted August 2020
    Ashley ·
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    We aren't even doing a big cake cutting, just having the photographer take some pictures of the 2 of us and that's it. And neither one of us wants it smashed in our faces.

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  • Jasmine
    Rockstar August 2020
    Jasmine Online ·
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    Nay! I refuse to get any cake on my face and hair after all that time and money I spent getting it to look a certain way. Maybe after if we take any cake back lol

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  • Carrie
    Savvy May 2020
    Carrie ·
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    NAY! This is not for us

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  • Nicole
    Rockstar July 2020
    Nicole ·
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    Nay, nay, NAY! How disrespectful is it to smash cake into your new spouse's face? Especially after I'm spending hundreds of dollars on my hair/makeup/dress. If my FH were to do this, it would be grounds for divorce.

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  • K
    Expert November 2019
    Kiley ·
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    Absolutely not. I find it disrespectful.. and a huge waste of money after paying for my hair/makeup.

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