Cake smash in face - yes or no?

Hell to the no

We gave both think this is tacky. We will have forks to feed each other cake.

I know if I smash cake in his face, he'll do it in mine and I would be livid about my dress and makeup lol so in avoiding the smash

NOOOOOOO I hate this so much. SO MUCH.

No. If I'm paying a bazillion dollars for hair and makeup (and cake!) I'm not ruining or wasting it. Plus to me these are just tacky.

Not an option.

Nope. Makeup and dress.... not getting them messed up!

No way. I think it's tacky and looks childish. Every time I see pictures of it, I think of those photo shoots with babies that have a "smash cake" for their first birthday. We will nicely feed each other cake and keep it classy and romantic.

No way!

No. Absolutely not. Not only does it destroy the symbolism of the feeding of the cake (that you will provide for each other), DF and I both find it extremely disrespectful toward one another, not to mention potentially ruining hair, makeup, and clothes that we spent a LOT of money on.

I actually asked DF his thoughts on it once to see his reaction. He was appalled and said, "Why would I want to do that to my new wife?! I respect you too much for that!"

That's a big fat nope!

No way! I'm getting my makeup done for a reason.

No way! FH has already said he wouldn't do this and I'm not into it.

Hell no. i find it disrespectful as hell.

I wouldn't want my Fh to do it to me so I will not be doing it to him

I hate it too. Rude, messy and uncalled for. ESPECIALLY with tip jars to vote for one person to smash it on the other or visa versa....

Nope!

FH would be soo mad if he got dirty, lol

I personally have always viewed it as a disrespectful way to treat your spouse on your wedding day. It just doesn't seem nice to me!

DH and I did not talk about this-- he did a great job-- got a tiny piece right in my mouth, and I was so anxious, I got him right on the side of the face. I was so mortified! FWIW, then I kissed him and we both had cake on our faces....