I just had a thought about wedding budgets and I'm wondering what all you ladies have found in your own wedding planning process. Do/did you have one lump sum all at once for your budget or are you paying for things over time? I'm doing a little of both, (waiting for the tax return, lol) and buying small things out of my paychecks now. My thought was, have you spent more or less money doing it one way or the other? I'm thinking I may spend more over time purchasing things as I go. I wonder if I just had one lump sum, if I would stick to that amount more seriously? Thoughts?