Bridesmaids/groomsmen sitting during ceremony?

In my “vision” - it is only my fiancé and I standing up with the Officiant during our ceremony. He has a best man and a groomsmen and I have a maid of honor and a Jr. Bridesmaid (I had a bridesmaid, my best friend, but she randomly quit, blocked me on everything, after 8 years of friendship, but that’s another story lol.)

so at this point I would rather just my groom and I to stand and the bridal party to be seated in the first row. My reasons are in photos of the ceremony I’d like it just to be my fiancé and I and of course the Officiant. Second, my jr bridesmaid is only 10 and I can see her getting very fidgety during the 30 minute ceremony. Third, my fiancé’s groomsman is someone I don’t really know - it is his friend he met years ago online and they play video games together. They are not very close and I doubt they will be friends for “forever” - this will be the first time they meet. So while I do appreciate all of them, I have my reasons. Not trying to sound like a total bridezilla-evil-girlfriend about the groomsman thing either - my fiancé agrees with my reasoning and understands!

Would it be weird to have them seated? Will it seem like I’m not giving them their time to “shine”? It is a small wedding, less than 40 people, just our closest family and friends. As you can tell, we don’t have many friends let alone close friends 😆 TIA for opinions and try to keep it not rude if you could 😁