I am really struggling with this topic and I feel like a terrible person for considering it but it's really what I feel in my heart...
Back in early May, I mentioned to one of my friends about her potentially being one of my bridesmaids. She seemed excited about it yet nonchalant and told me it was sweet. However, now that the wedding is 6 months away and I am preparing to send off my wedding party proposals, I am having second thoughts on her. We have only communicated back and forth two times in four months and have only hung out once. I just feel like at this point if she was standing up at the alter with me it would be because I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings. There is no close relationship there anymore where as I 100% want my soon to be sister-in-law in my wedding. She was someone that I had not thought of before because we were not close at the time but in the last couple of months we have gotten extremely close and I can't see myself getting married without her next to me.
My fiancé and I decided that we ONLY want three people in our line up and I already have my 2 and now I am in this dilemma. I understand that a different amount of people in wedding parties is totally common these days, but I am just not convinced I want that. Again, we haven't been close at all and I don't see us getting any closer. I do believe she would still come to the wedding but I just don't want to upset her or make her feel less-than because of my big mouth.
Has anyone else been in a situation like this? What did you do? What should I do?