So I chose to have 4 bridesmaids and tomorrow is the very first activity that I invited everyone to participate in, we are shopping for my wedding dress. Well one of my bridesmaids decided that today was the perfect day to bow out of her position, blaming a lack of finances and time. Although I'm glad she was honest, doing it through text message when she lives two blocks from me is heart breaking. I have been absolutely unassuming as a bride and don't plan on asking any of my party to spend more than they WANT to. There was never any pressure. Needless to say I am beyond bummed and don't want to bring this negative energy into my dress shopping experience tomorrow.
Update- I told her I am her biggest supporter and will be here for whatever she needs this year. I also invited her to get ready with me before the wedding and sent a picture of the dress I chose today!