We just postponed our 5/2/2020 wedding. Too many factors involved in our wedding with out of town guests, some saying no because of concern especially elderly and high risk guests, so we moved out the wedding. The date is now 1-2-2021. It is far off but that is all we could find as everything is booked up because of all the changes. Still not perfect date as some still said that may be a hard date for them, including wedding party, but we are just so over it and picked that date and said whoever shows up does.
So that comes to the fact that we really don't want to wait that long to be legally married. We want to get on with that part of our life as we have already been engaged for a year and a half and start changing insurance etc to make life easier on us. We are thinking of getting married quietly not telling anyone but parents for now and do the ceremony and reception later with everyone to celebrate. How many other brides may be doing a quick wedding legally before and still doing a bigger ceremony/reception for family later? Are you keeping it a secret or telling people you are getting married?