Bridal shower thank you’s

So I’m a little stumped on how to write some of my thank you cards. We had a few girls that couldn’t make it but went in on a gift with girls that were there. So I’m just stumped on how to write a thank you to them because I do appreciate the gift, but the way I’m starting out the thank you’s is; “thank you so much for coming to my shower and celebrating the day with me” along the lines of that and goes on to personalize the thank you’s a bit from there. I just tend to second-guess myself a lot and overthink things so I really don’t know how to word it if like they didn’t make it or they just stopped in for a quick second and weren’t there the whole time. And another thing I’m unsure about is on Pinterest I’ve seen that for the end of the thank you’s from the bridal shower some people put “lots of love from the groom and bride to be” is it normal to say thank you from the groom as well because he’s getting the items too? Or since it was just a personal thing with the bride is it just a thank you from her? or is that all just up the preference? I’m so clueless with everything and can’t ask my mom for help, so any advice is much appreciated! Thank you!