Beyond words... how to relax until the wedding?

Someone who I considered my best friend since 7th grade rsvp’d, promised to do my hair and makeup, then very rudely canceled on me citing that her boyfriends parents were mad that he wasn’t invited and she had a business conference to go to the day of my wedding anyway.


I was diagnosed with lupus 3 days ago.
I’m having a house wedding downsized from a big wedding due to a health scare, which yes I knew would piss people off, but I had begun to walk with a cane, was home bound, and would cry tears because of the physical pain I was in almost daily. Something had to be done.
We’re trying to throw together the house wedding and our electrical circuits have shorted, the dog is having accidents... many other things... the wedding is tomorrow. I am an emotional wreck. I’m trying to cope by focusing on my fiancé, and that helps a lot.
Brides, how did you cope with the pre-wedding stress and relax?
Any wedding joy you can share?