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Niecy Sparkles
VIP August 2014

Best and worst bridesmaid gift ever received?

Niecy Sparkles, on February 7, 2014 at 11:14 AM

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What was the best and worst bridesmaid gift you've received? Best: (wasn't a great gift, but just the only gift I've had) a bridesmaid shirt, with a monogrammed necklace Worst: No gift at all, not even a thank you card. I've only been a bridesmaid 3 times. 2 of the times, I didn't receive a gift. ...

What was the best and worst bridesmaid gift you've received?

Best: (wasn't a great gift, but just the only gift I've had) a bridesmaid shirt, with a monogrammed necklace

Worst: No gift at all, not even a thank you card.

I've only been a bridesmaid 3 times. 2 of the times, I didn't receive a gift.

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  • Mrs. V V
    Master June 2014
    Mrs. V V ·
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    Best: the bride had us in semi fitted dresses that were a low V-neck, so she got each of us a VS bra, matching thong, and perfume.

    worst: I am pretty light skinned, and the bride gave us bronzer. I don't even know what happened to it.

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  • P
    Super August 2014
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    I am currently a bridesmaid but the wedding isn't until September so I haven't received a gift. I am planning on doing a personalized tote and tumbler for the girls they won't say bridesmaid but will likely say their first name unsure yet. I had considered getting them yoga pants or sweats to get ready in with their last names on them but since everyone is a different size I don't want to guess and get it wrong and hurt someones feelings.

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  • P
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    Best- a friend paid for our dresses!!! Yeah. It saved me $100.

    Worst: $10 worth of crap from the dollar store. I would much rather have had the $10.

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    VIP May 2014
    FutureMrs.Combs ·
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    Best- pearl set jewelry

    Worst-flip flops- They weren't even personalized.

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  • Mrs. Captain America
    VIP June 2014
    Mrs. Captain America ·
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    This is a great post! I have yet to decide on what I am getting my girls.

    As a bridesmaid once, all the bride gave us was a pair of earrings - but it was greatly appreciated and we didn't whine or complain. It was actually kind of cool, she bought 5 different pairs (for 5 different bridesmaids) and we got to pick which one we wanted. Nobody got an ugly pair or anything because they were all nice and would go with any outfit!

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  • Rubi
    Devoted June 2014
    Rubi ·
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    Worst: Jewelry

    Best: Dress and shoes

    I'm givin mine Jewelry and getting their hair done

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  • Babebet
    Expert March 2014
    Babebet ·
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    Best: The BM dress. She bought us all black dresses and her mom custom made belts for us to go with them. I have worn that dress so many times.

    Worst: Earrings that made my ear itch REALLY bad. I wore them for the ceremony and pictures and took them out immediately!

    These were actually from the same bride! Funny how both gifts made both slots.

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  • Shannon A
    Master May 2014
    Shannon A ·
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    I don't think giving jewelry is bad or wrong. i guess if it is jewelry you will never wear again. i got my MOH's opinion on which earrings she liked, so i know they are good. I'm also giving them little make-up bags embroidered with their first initial, personalized hangers, shot glasses, hand lotion, and a letter superimposed over a picture of us.

    I've only been a bridesmaid once, and we got jewelry to wear at the wedding. i didn't think it was bad at all! i didn't expect a gift at all! it's too fancy to wear on a regular basis, but i can wear it when i'm in a dress (and i wore it with one outfit in my boudoir pics).

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  • MrsLaguna
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    MrsLaguna ·
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    So basically nothing that is related to the wedding is a gift, monograms suck, and yes to paying for their dress and makeup oh and pampering is also good. Great post so glad I read this before I purchased gifts.

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    Just Said Yes June 2013
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    Best - I only attended to one bridesmaid party of my work colleague. Got monogram necklace from NamePlateDepot it looked cute overall. No worst one..

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