Bachelor Party Poll

I wasn't ok with it/neither was he. This issue never came up for us.

Sounda like it, stace

already-married people won't get off their high horse, because their relationship is just SO PERFECT AND TRUST FILLED AND OBVIOUSLY IF I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH STRIP CLUBS, I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT TRUST MY FH!!!

For the record - didn't say any of that. Just bringing up valid counterpoints to your point. FFS

I have no problem with it, we are having a Vegas bachelor/bachelorette party and the guys will stay in one hotel and us in another. I'm sure his boys will take him to one but I'm cool with it, I trust him and want him to have a good time.

If my DH wanted to cheat he wouldn't have to go to a strip club to do it. Anyway, we were all out to dinner for a friends Bday and we spontaneously decided to go to a strip club and my H's 21 yr old cousin said she would walk home from Detroit because she doesn't want to look at naked women. She was blushing and everything, it was cute. LOL

I dont care if FH does or not. He most likely will. They went for one of the GM's Bach party. Its a strip club literally nothing happens. I also don't think it's disrespectful, people are dancing for a wage.

Well, what evs. I was just meaning to say that he's not into it, and I was joking about the video games. No trackers or anything like that because I trust him. Just saying that he just doesn't prefer it, that's all. Yikes. Didn't mean to offend, but I think we don't give men enough credit 1/2 the time and think that they're strange because they don't like naked women in front of them. Some people have no problem with strip clubs and that's your opinion. Oh well EDIT: is someone saying strip clubs lead to cheating, because I missed that part. I'm not saying that.

Favorite moment today was seeing someone call their FH a loser, jokingly or not.

That's really not even funny as a joke.

I don't think he will, but I'd be cool with it. I'd be less okay with him blowing a bunch of money on tips, but fine with the strippers in general.

Lololol... my FH thinks strippers are gross and hates the idea of paying for a tease, but if his boys take him and pay I sure he wouldn't mind. I don't mind that he goes cuz I know what he is thinking.

This conversation is hilarious!

He wont pay for a tease but he will pay for the whole 9 yards??

@Pancake - what kind of lame strip clubs do you have there??

I agree @Snarky. Lol.

Strippers are gross?

I don't know if I'd be "okay" with it, but I'm not going to be like "no you can't go" because I trust him, and know he'd probably just get drunk and say "I love you to everyone" (yes, he's a lovey drunk...lol)

ETA: I don't really want them at my bach either, I'd just be extremely uncomfortable

Just in general I disagree with the sexual objectification of women (and men) so I guess that could be construed as "strippers are gross" (although it wasn't me that said it).

Not cool with it. but neither is he, so w/e. Porn is fine, it's the interactiveness and the $$ that I would have an issue with (and so would he). In my mind, strippers are closer to phone sex lines or chatrooms than porn.

Couldn't care less about strippers.

This is hilarious

Katy - Is that not everywhere now? My bad. Lol. FH came home the last time he was at a Christie's and said they all have to wear pasties, now. Maybe we have too many creepers in the area. Lol.