Bachelor Party Poll

I wouldn't care...I've actually been to a strip club several times lol but FH and his friends agree that strippers are just a waste of money since it's just a tease (which of course is the whole point lol)

Dammit, Emmy. That was a good one...

Awww, CUTE.

I feel like WW wouldn't be WW without one of these goddamn posts about strippers at least once per month.

Lol snarky

@randi- but those overalls are so scandalous! Lol. @snarky- I feel like saying that it's impossible for a man to dislike strippers is in a way animalizing them as if they cannot feel compassion or to prefer not to look at naked strangers. While I recognize the generally higher sexuality of men that does not mean that they all enjoy those things. That's rather sexist.

@snarky, lol...for like the first 2 years of our relationship, FH swore up and down he didn't watch porn. I would always look at him like "wtf are you serious." I finally got him to admit it recently because I pulled the "I'm gonna be your wife, you should be able to tell me anything!" card. Hahaha. Anyway, I'm not opposed to him checking out other women (he has eyes, dammit!) but the idea of a random stripper grinding on him totally grosses me out. To each his own, I guess.

I would be at a strip club before FH. He's such a loner, he doesn't even want a bachelor party! Crazypants.

Mrs. K, lol that was great!

^^

Lol

FH has gone to strip clubs and enjoyed it, I'm sure. He says he wants me to go because it "would be hot."

He also claims he doesn't/has never watched porn, but finds it weird that I do (but not really anymore). LOL WUT??? I still don't believe him.

@stacedeezy, it's a fair question - does your FH work? go to the gym? a bar? I have heard of women with men cheating on them after meeting women in all of those places too...

I try

@Emmy Yep. No women in his work. Goes to the gym with me, doesn't go to a bar. He's pretty much a loser.

@Future Mrs. JKR hahaha I know, I should really be worried....

I don't think some people realize what happens in a strip club... They can't touch you and you can't touch them. FH said they even started not allowing nudity waist down and some places even make the girls wear pasties. So it's literally like going to the beach and seeing girls dance in their bikini.

Well then your nearly set for a perfect marriage, now for a tracker on his phone and parental locks on all devices

I really wouldn't care. I told my FH to go for it if he wants just not to be too hungover for the wedding. I don't think he will though because he doesn't drink at all (which I don't mind because it means I have a built in designated driver) and because I think he'd just be awkward and uncomfortable the whole time. He didn't go to his friend's bachelor party because he said he wasn't interested in going to a strip club, even though I told him to go and buy his friend a lap dance for me lol FH just wants to go shoot paintball and I'm not complaining it's definitely cheaper. idk I think it's all just in good fun as long as nobody's getting hurt and everyone is being upfront and honest with each other I don't think it's a big deal, but I can understand why it would make some people uncomfortable.

I'm not 100% sure why it's anyone's business whether or not my FH goes to a strip club, since he himself said he has no intentions to. And why me having a problem with it anyway makes me a terrible, terrible person.

already-married people won't get off their high horse, because their relationship is just SO PERFECT AND TRUST FILLED AND OBVIOUSLY IF I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH STRIP CLUBS, I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT TRUST MY FH!!!

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