Bachelor Party Disaster

Is there something in the water!?

That sucks big time!! I agree that the cruise wasn't the problem at all. If he is going to cheat, he will cheat regardless. I honestly think that even if he was just sneaking off to make out with her - that's cheating. I would even have issues with him sneaking off with her to have deep conversations; he is there for a bachelor party, you can make friends, but there is no reason to sneak off unless you are really into her...and I don't consider myself the jealous type.

I know you will probably hate me for this but this is what really happened to me. A few girls and I took a trip to Vegas. One of the girls took her lover with her, this was not the first time that we had seen her with one. We had all had it with her and her lover switching that we told her to tell her husband or else we would.

She told her husband alright. She told him that the other girl and I had taken lovers with us. She turned the whole story around.....and of course her husband believed her.

Hear me out...what if, just what if, you tell this girl and she turns around and tell you her man told her it was your fiancee doing that??? Are you prepared to hear that?? Im sorry not trying to be mean or anything just sharing a true thing that happened to me. What if every guy has a different version of which guy did it????????

I would think that if EdieKristen's DH was open enough with her to be like, "Hey dear, let me tell you about some craziness went down on the trip, and it's not pretty..." then I would find it unlikely that he did anything terrible and EdieKristen should be very confident of that. Why would EdieKristen's DH cheat, but then tell her that someone else was guilty of cheating too? If EdieKristen's DH also cheated, then he probably wouldn't have said A SINGLE WORD about anyone cheating, hoping that EdieKristen wouldn't even have those seeds planted in her mind.

EdieKristen probably has NO doubts that her DH was true to her on the cruise, so she shouldn't even consider keeping quiet for worry about the tables being turned on her and having her DH be accused of bad behavior.

There's that stupid guy code, but like Heather H said, there's such a thing as a girl code, and it basically goes: "Girls stick together don't let other girls put up with any man's stupid shit!"

EdieKristen, you should do what you feel you would want done for you. If I really felt for the person who was cheated on, I would tell them what happened.

If all those guys get mad at you, then they get mad at you. That will show them that you and your DH are solid and keep no secrets from each other (which is, hands down, the BEST relationship you can ever have), that you won't put up with any of their dumbass ways if you find out, and if they want to do anything stupid, they better not do it in plain view of the two of you.

Sorry...Ms Mermaid..you can't think that your way is the best way and others would agree. You might want to know, but B2B 'C' may not. Why is your way the best way? This is something that the 2 need to deal with in their own time. If this guy has a habit of doing this, she will find out on her own. Want to be a friend..be a friend to help pick up the pieces..not tear the building down when it's not your business.

I don't want to upset you but you could write an annonymous letter (or type it). The woman has the right to know!!!