I know this has been discussed, but I wanted fresh advice - My friend of more than 20 years emailed that she is bringing her baby (he will be 3 months old by my wedding date) to my wedding. She said she's not ready to leave him yet and is breast feeding, and then told me she's leaving her other son with her sister. The only children coming to the ceremony are immediate family members, not cousins, etc. I'm not trying to be insensitive or rude about breast feeding mothers BUT I don't want any children at my reception - our siblings' children are not invited there. I'm annoyed she didn't even ask and was just going to bring him as well. Is it absolutely necessary for this friend to bring her child?