Awkward Bridesmaid Decisions

@MrsMPhil you clearly didn't understand. How has she been rude aside for confide her feelings in a forum? What did she do to her?

Stop assuming so much when you don't know these people. You guys are so deep into your feeling about this like it's your own personal matter. She's entitled to her opinion just like you <---like you said above. I've already stated I don't agree with her, but I don't have to. I've read the CG's, maybe you and many of the other women on her should.

As cruel as you guys have been to her, your no different. It's funny how you see her disrespect and none of yours.

Have a great day being just as mean and cruel as the lady you've been judging! Lol

Imagine being upset that people are sticking up for someone who isn't even able to defend themselves when someone decides to criticize their body behind their back on a public forum for anyone to read.

Incredible.

No one called OP names. They did criticize her opinion (which is a rude and awful way to think about her potential BP members).

BP isn't a prop.

@Symone - you can say that you don't agree with OP all you want, but your original comment in all of this stated that "It seems as if other brides don't envision their bridal parties as beautiful or strive for it". YOU wrote those words.

And now you are trying to say that because people believe that OP is showing her true colors by coming to a public forum to talk shit about her FSIL that somehow we are the ones in the wrong. Pointing out that someone is being rude is very different than talking shit about someone behind their back.

If I had a bridal party, I see them all as beautiful. In every size shape, color and form they are in. They are my nearest, dearest and beautiful no matter how they look. I have accepted them for who they are and love them for it. Unfortunately OP only sees the outside and that's is where the issue comes in. I couldn't imagine not wanting someone in my wedding just because of their outward appearance. It's just so hurtful and I couldn't imagine hurting family that way.

I usually don't ask this; but...where is OP?

I came back from stove shopping & was certain this thread would have been hidden :o

@ambrok - I've been wondering that too. My guess is troll. Or maybe a ghost. Who knows?! Lol