Are you allowed to talk to the groom the day of?

I'm pretty sure nothing bad will happen if you text

I probably won't text him, but my sister might if she thinks he's being too slow!

I texted him a little, but it was mostly business, unfortunately. He sent me the sweetest text before he went to bed. It was 1 am, so technically it was our wedding day. Just don't be on your phone ALL day, I would say.

You "allowed" to do whatever works best for you and FH. many people spend the night before with their FH/FW. the wedding police will not come and arrest you

We will be together the night before so...this doesn't apply to me. He's getting kicked out around 8am!

Fh and I will def. Be talking the day before, but will not see each other. We've been apart for months at a time so one night won't kill us!

He wanted to be super traditional. I thought it was ridiculous. I called him and he had his friend answer the phone. So we didn't talk/text even though it was super annoying. He did write me a note & had one of the groomsmen deliver it.

You can if you want, but im not. The most we are communicating between the rehearsal and the ceremony is maybe a good-night text the night before, and the handwritten love letters that we will read from each other before the ceremony.

I don't believe in all that "it's bad luck" no one ever got divorced and blamed it on seeing their groom before their wedding. We stayed in the same room and kissed goodbye when he left to go get ready. It's your wedding, do whatever you want to do. There aren't any rules set in stone these days.

I plan on talking/texting with FH on our wedding day. We are getting married at 5PM and there is no way I would be able to last until then without talking to him. I already know that the night before will be hard for me (I just don't sleep well if he's not in the bed with me) and I will want contact with him during the day (if nothing else to just calm myself and know that he will be at the end of the aisle waiting for me)

My friend got married earlier this year and everyone freaked out when he called her... I'm sorry but if my man calls me that means he needs to talk to me and I'm going to talk to him. I won't see him until I walk down the aisle but I'm going to have our good morning phone call and text him if we have time...

We didn't talk, but we did pass notes back and forth a few times (post-it notes) with cute messages, that are now on our fridge.

I'll probably text him at least. Maybe call.

Aww I'm so breaking whatever wedding rule this is and totally talking to him!! I will be so excited and probably a little stressed and he is the person that makes me relax and feel better!!

We saw each other. We stayed in the same house (different rooms the night before-I had a slumber party with the girls in my suite), but I wasn't staying quarantined in my suite the whole day. We all had breakfast together that morning.

We were thinking of doing a first touch for pictures (around a door or wall or something) and I am sure it won't be silence LOL. We don't text a lot now so I imagine we won't text on our day either!

I saw mine. After the rehearsal dinner was over & when everyone else went to sleep, he came by my hotel, helped me organize the placecards & fell asleep next to me for 2 hours before going back to his room. Can't sleep without him. It was a beautiful moment. Just him & I and total quiet before we went our opposite ways to get ready for the wedding.

My FH's little sister already asked/offered to get to run notes back and forth. Very cute. We probably won't be constantly note-ing, but a couple of love notes might be really sweet.

Obviously if something needs said/done/whatever, I have no problem with texting him

I know we'll be texting him (when we're not too busy getting ready), I'll be too excited not to!

I quite like the idea of not having contact with him until he sees me walking down the aisle, but at the same time a lot of our wedding is DIY so there's every chance we'll need to be in touch to sort something out last minute.

It's not that I think it would be bad luck or anything, just that I think it adds a little romance if you've not talked that morning and the first contact is him seeing you in that dress walking down the aisle to marry him.