Are there any 2021 Brides considering canceling or postponing your wedding?

I would postpone or have a wedding here in the US we have some beautiful places to get married.

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Thanks Molly. I think you are right and we are considering it.

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You're welcome! I hope everything works out for you!

Hey Robyn!!


Initially my wedding was booked for July 22,2021. I didn’t think I would need to postpone. But then flight restrictions came in and passport/ visa agencies decided to slow down. I have family traveling from the DR and from Europe. I don't know when flying to the US will be permitted. My fiancé and I decided to move it one more year.
In the end it benefited us as we are now able to buy a home before getting married and the wedding still gets paid off next year.
Postponing is definitely not ideal but no one really knows what’s going to happen. If your gut tells you let’s postpone do it.

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Thanks Hilenny!! You are right no one really knows what's going to happen unfortunately. One of the things that concern me with postponing is also subsequently postponing our desire to start a family. We really wanted to start on our wedding night LOL But we have discussed not postponing the start of trying. Which means I could potentially be showing (if its God will) at the later scheduled date. Which there is nothing wrong with it but its not what I invisioned. I guess I could postpone it a year out as well but start the family making process now. It is something to think about. Buying a home is a big step/accomplishment. Congratulations!!

Hi Robyn! I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, I know it's so hard to predict what things will be like in February. ❤️ Destination weddings still make me a little nervous right now, because travel bans and restrictions can change so quickly and without warning - and it's completely out of your control!

Here are a few discussions where you can connect with other couples planning destination weddings and family planning: Destination weddings in 2020, Destination? Covid? Compromise?, February 2021, and Postponed Wedding and Babies.

Oh no I’m so sorry that restriction is affecting you. I think postponing may relieve most of your stress, and then you can plan again without worrying as much! It’s so hard to predict when international travel will resume

View Quoted Comment Thanks Lynnie, I will check these out.

View Quoted Comment Thanks, I think you may be right. It’s just hard to let go of my dream.

My wedding is March and right now my fiancé and I decided to see what till happen in the fall/winter. I talked to my wedding coordinator today and she said that I have until the end of January/beginning of February to make a decision. Either have it, postpone, or cancel with a refund. Do you think you can’t wait until Octoberish to see if anything changes? If we are on “lockdown” at that time I would either move it to the US or change it

Commenting on the title... That’s a NO for me! Lol. I would be afraid of February though. But I wouldn’t cancel.


This passed feb 2020 before the wide spread pandemic, we had already planned for DECEMBER 2021 for time and financial reasons. Kinda glad we did. So I wouldn’t be changing. But you balling in Costa Rica so I’m on the fence.

Thank you Robyn!!


We actually had planned to start during our honeymoon lol. And we were planning on having our honeymoon in 2022 anyway so it kind of works. I’ve noticed a lot of couples on here have decided to elope with close family and reception later. Maybe that can work for you and maybe your little one can celebrate as well.
Best of luck!!

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Thanks Yasmine. I just sent an email to my wedding coordinator asking my options and the details of having it, postponing, canceling or maybe moving it to another destination. Waiting to hear back from her. Yes we can wait til October. We were told we have until December to really make a choice but the 2% of type A personality wants to have it all planned out LOL. But my FH is all for holding on to the very end, bless his heart. LOL. The destination means a lot to us. Constantly praying for a turn around.

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Thanks Asia, yes I can totally understand that. Canceling would be the absolute last option we would even consider. LOL I'm glad you all picked the December as well. That was great insight. LOL @ balling in Costa Rica. Costa Rica is really special to us; its where we both realized that this journey we were on was one that was going to be forever.

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I would definitely wait at least until October to make a decision because literally no one knows what will happen with COVID. I really hope you can continue as planned!

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Thanks Hilenny!! I have noticed that as well. It certainly is not off the table. The more options we have the better. I really appreciate everyones response because it really has been helpful. Best of luck to you as well.

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Thanks Yasmine, you are absolutely right. I hope the same for you as well. We are putting it out there Ms. Rona won't claim our weddings LOL.

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Yesss lol, thank you!

View Quoted Comment That’s soooo beautiful ♥️😎. Congratulations wish you both well for centuries!

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Thanks so much Asia, Wishing the same to you two as well.