My friend got married around the same time i did. She was absolutely so sure that she was not going to do “thank you” cards until she asked me what my plan was. I was going to do “thank you” cards no matter what. Not only that but husband and I were lucky enough to have a big group shot of all our guests and we had those pictures made as magnets, as well as pictures we had with our guests added. (Husband and I used cocktail hour to take pics with our guests that had the city skyline and water in the background). Once she knew that was my plan, she immediately ordered hers.
I was finished and wrote all 85+ of our thank you cards the following week. A week after that, I received her thank you card in the mail and SURPRISE, there were pictures. She did NOT write a note... I was actually kind of surprised. There were mutual friends that were also puzzled as there was no note written and speculated it was a last minute attempt to catch up with my “thank you” card giving.
Is it a trend these days to not write a note? Or still considered rude according to etiquette?
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