Okay, i can't believe I am putting this out here but:
My future wife and I originally didn't want a big wedding, something small, preferably on the Disney cruise. But my entire family would be travelling as they have all moved to southern states since I left high school. My family also doesn't come from as much money or opportunity to travel and vacation. It was a push to do something big home in Boston to be "worth their time and money", so we are already settled for a nice hotel wedding. Don't get me wrong, this wedding location and DJ and dresses are beautiful but I always dreamed of getting married on the Disney Cruise (that's where we got engaged!)
Is it weird to set our honeymoon one year out (we get married 10/10/2020 and cruise would be Oct 2021) and do a "wedding" there. It would just be the two of us, and although it is expensive, we both want to be Disney brides (our wedding in Boston is Disney themed!, of course).
So: has anyone done something of this sort. Call it a second wedding, a 1 year vow renewal, or two ceremonies. Am I just being ridiculous?