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Raisingwildflowers

FH and I have been engaged for a little over 2.5yrs now. We have three beautiful children, two together and my oldest whom he adopted 2.5yrs ago. We've... View More

FH and I have been engaged for a little over 2.5yrs now. We have three beautiful children, two together and my oldest whom he adopted 2.5yrs ago. We've been together for 5yrs and finally planning our perfect day for next Fall at the White Mountain National Forest in NH🍁🍂

Happily married 🎉

September 20, 2019

2408days 23hrs
Gen
What have you changed your mind about? And why?
Gen, on October 31, 2018 at 3:08 PM

I felt like making a thread for this because I definitely feel like a HUGE part of wedding planning for me has been making decisions, then realizing that’s not actually what I want, and reversing...

, Nov 6, 2018 18
Stephanie
Getting ready location
Stephanie, on October 26, 2018 at 8:30 PM

Quick question. Where are you guys planning on getting ready/did you get ready (for the already married ones)? I’ve always gotten ready in hotels or a friend’s nice house for weddings I’ve been a part...

Stephanie, Oct 29, 2018 24
Jayla
Gold or Silver?
Jayla, on October 26, 2018 at 4:05 PM

Which metallic accent do you prefer? Are you adding clean accents of silver? Or will you keep things rich and romantic with gold? Does your decor taste lean towards silver or gold? Silver? Photo by...

Christina, Feb 10, 2019 49
F
Stress...elope?
Future Mrs. Polar Bear, on October 11, 2018 at 8:32 AM

Have you ever been so stressed about wedding planning and so frustrated with all of your family and friends that tell you to do your wedding the way YOU want it, but still try telling you what you can...

Raisingwildflowers, Oct 26, 2018 35
Derby
Bam!! we did That!👰🏾🤴 (sneak preview)
Derby, on October 26, 2018 at 7:43 AM

Hello everyone I got married yesterday and the day went by fast. There was a couple things that did not go the way I planned it but I didnt not let it affect me or ruin our special day. We actually...

Mizznesha, Dec 30, 2018 50
Shayla
Budget Breakdown
Shayla, on October 25, 2018 at 4:45 PM

Ive seen a few other posts regarding budget breakdown after all is said and done with wedding planning. My wedding was 10/13/18. We opted for a "fancy elopement" instead of a traditional big wedding....

Jazz, Oct 26, 2018 7
Alexandria
Please help me pick a shawl color
Alexandria, on October 24, 2018 at 5:36 AM

I need a shawl because it'll be cold but not freezing cold in Naples on January 4th. The ivory matches better with the top of my dress but the blush compliments the bottom. I'm leaning towards ivory....

Samantha, Jan 29, 2019 71
Jayla
How formal is your wedding?
Jayla, on October 24, 2018 at 7:05 PM

When it comes to your wedding theme, decor, and attire, how formal would you say it is? Would you say it’s a cocktail, semi-formal, or a black tie affair? How formal is your wedding? Photo by Renee...

Jayla, Oct 30, 2018 39
E
Choosing a dress?
Emily, on October 24, 2018 at 8:05 PM

Hey guys! So, over the last 4 months i’ve gained 60 pounds. Im extremely insecure about my body, but need to order it ASAP so it will get here on time including alterations. Every dress i tried on my...

EM, Dec 7, 2018 42
P
Wedding dress
Paris, on October 23, 2018 at 8:25 PM

Anyone selling their wedding dress after their wedding? If so, where? Love my dress but I don’t think I care to keep it forever in my closet lol.

Kodi, Oct 24, 2018 10
K
Etsy wedding veil
Kendra, on October 23, 2018 at 5:10 PM

Has anyone ordered a veil off of Etsy? I want a cathedral veil but all of the bridal shops want $400+. I was wondering if they are pretty decent quality? I mainly just want it for pictures and...

persimonefink, Oct 24, 2018 13
AM
To Veil or not to Veil
AM, on October 23, 2018 at 10:59 AM

Plan on wearing my long hair down for the wedding. I can see how a veil brings together the look but i don't think i'd want to wear a veil if it wasn't long, and they're not cheap! Did you decide to...

earias, Oct 23, 2018 18
Maggie
Would you rather... get married on a Thursday or a Sunday?
Maggie, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Fridays and Saturdays are popular days for weddings, but if you had to... Would you rather get married on a Thursday or a Sunday? Next question: Would you rather... cut the shower or the bach party? ...

Melle, Jul 24, 2019 204
Maggie
Would you rather... get married two months or two years from now?
Maggie, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Wedding planning can be difficult, but would it be harder to speed it up or slow it down? Would you rather get married in two months or two years from today? (Or this past weekend if you don’t want...

Samantha, Jun 1, 2019 155
Kelly
Would you rather... splurge on your ring or your honeymoon?
Kelly, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

If you had a little extra cash to do some splurging, what would you rather spend it on? Would you upgrade your honeymoon plans (hello gorgeous villa in Italy) or go big on a gorgeous diamond ring?...

Samantha, Jun 1, 2019 221
Rebecca
Would you rather... your mom crash your bach party or crash your honeymoon?
Rebecca, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

We love our moms, but there are some things we’d rather not have her tag along to. Would you rather... your mom crash your bach party or crash your honeymoon? Next Question: Would you rather......

Alyssa, Feb 24, 2020 156
Jayla
Would you rather...have a dress that looks amazing in person but so-so in pictures, or vice versa?
Jayla, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

If you had to choose one thing about your dress would it be that it photographs well, or looks amazing in person? Is this something you considered when dress shopping? Would you rather ...have a...

Mrs. Spring, Nov 19, 2020 177
Sam
Would you rather... hand over complete planning control to your parents or your future in-laws?
Sam, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Between you and your fiancé(e), there’s probably one set of your parents that you’d trust more to take the lead on your wedding planning! Whether they throw better backyard barbeques or simply know...

Mrs. Spring, Nov 19, 2020 197
Sam
Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers or all of your parents' friends?
Sam, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Let’s be honest, not everyone on your guest list is a must-have attendee for your wedding! Your mother’s old college roommate and your supervisor at work may not be high priorities on your guest...

Melle, Jul 24, 2019 232
Kelly
Would you rather... invite 30 guests or 300?
Kelly, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

When it comes to the size of your celebration, would you rather keep things intimate or go all out with a big bash? Would you rather invite 30 or 300 guests? Photo by Palos Studio Next Question:...

Candi, Sep 13, 2021 415
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