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At our wedding in October my husband and I danced to "I'll be loving you forever" by New Kids on the Block and halfway through I danced with my dad and he danced with his mom. For the reception that...

My husband and I got married in October. His parents are planning to hold a reception for us in April for his side of the family (we live in NJ and got married in WA). I'm trying to decide between two...

How soon after your engagement did you plan your wedding? My fiancé wants to get married in 2019, but that'd be only 10 months to plan! I don't feel like that's enough time, I'd like to get married in...

Did you invite kids to your wedding? My fiance has a 6 year old who will be our flower girls. Our nephews will also be included in the wedding. My cousins have many, many kids. We're unsure if we...

Hi all So, my FH and I have only been engaged for 6 months and our wedding is in 2 weeks. I've spent so much time preparing and planning for everything else that I completely spaced on cake. Would it...

We received a very nice pair of toasting champagne flutes from FH's aunt (it was the very first thing we received after we announced our engagement, in fact) and I have a question about using them at...

My wedding is in 11 days. We have close to 250 people coming and less than a quarter of our guests have bought us gifts. Is this normal?? My fiancé has been encouraging me to let it go and be grateful...

I guess this could fall under "something burrowed" but could also be something passed on. Just wondering if any of you or your spouse are wearing something that a family member wore in their wedding?...

I feel like it has always felt a little off to me when a couple is pronounced and introduced with the man’s first name, like “Mr and Mrs John Doe” instead of just “Mr and Mrs Doe.” Like I guess...

What is everyone doing for favors for their guests? I can't decide on any.

After realizing during alterations that my legs are going to get hot and sweaty under my dress, I started looking into shapewear that could help with that. I've never worn shapewear before, and from...

need to vent.... please bare with me . I just had my bridal shower this past weekend. it was perfect & i couldn't have asked for more or planned it better myself! here is the drama; my FH...

Hello, Some advice please!! I’m getting married in a little over a year in Oregon, but my fiancé and I live in NYC. I know it’s obviously been done, destination weddings happen all the time, but I’m...

My dress code is semi formal to formal, some people are wearing floor length dresses but not all. My MIL explained she doesn’t like floor length and wanted to wear a t-length dress. I told her that...

Has anyone changed their venue late in the game? We're 4 months out....... We're going to look at the Elks today to see their room they have for weddings. It's super cheap, compared to what we were...

So I am having a hard time deciding if I want to game my FH’s last name. Was anyone else in this dilemma? How did you decide?

Just curious why people do either way!