Discussions I've participated in

What is the rules on tipping?? All of our vendors own their own business and I heard you’re not suppose to tip if they own? But that seems wrong! How much to tip? For photo and video should I do it...

I've really been struggling with what to get all of our parents as gifts for the wedding. Let me just start out by saying we have a lot of funky family dynamics on both sides, so most of the clique...

Hello everyone ! my wedding is less than a month away and I’m freaking out just a bit! i will be having and evening wedding ceremony that starts at 8pm-830pm my reception is going to be an appetizer...

Let me start off by saying I know I’m being ridiculous here. But I need to get it out. I’m getting down lately because it feels like all our friends/family are getting engaged and married while we’ve...

Over the last few years, I've been invited to about 3-4 weddings per year. Because attending weddings can very quickly become expensive, I've been following a general rule of thumb: I only go if I am...

I received an invitation in the mail without a dinner choice, however, there was an option to mark off vegetarian entree. Should I include entree options on our invitations or is it common place to...

How possible is this? We met with FH's pastor for dinner last night and he asked us about honeymoon. And FH said he wasn't really sure how we would afford it on top of everything else. What kind of...

I've only had my engagement ring since late January... 3 months. Yesterday, I discovered it was already bent and 2 of the diamond chips around the sides fell out. I have it insured so I'm not...

I am a bridesmaid to a friend who lives far away. We are hosting her shower in her hometown. 3 bridesmaids from home; 3 bridesmaids from town where bride now lives. We are hosting the shower in...

Everyone invited to my wedding ceremony is also invited to our reception (same building, different room). I wasn’t going to sign people in. But due to a possibility of having more than invited attend...

What are some things that could be forgotten to put on your wedding budget?

We mailed out our invitations yesterday. I’m going over to my to do list & realizing that I’m finally at the home stretch! There really isn’t that much left to do; now my problem is I keep adding...

I am so nervous. I have about 10 family members I am close enough with to invite to my wedding. Fiance has about 30. Between us we have about 20 to 30 friends. I am so scared I'm only going to have...

What's a good time frame to start doing cake tastings? How many cake tastings did it take you before you found the right one? When should I have our cake booked? How long do places usually ask for...

Hi all, had anyone used or looked into generation tux or menguin? (I know The black tux is a good site but please do not recommend it as it does not have what my fiancé is looking for) we found a suit...

I will be hyphenating my last name until my daughter from a previous relationship goes off to college. She has both my current last name and her fathers last name. I went back and forth about it with...

Hi brides! I’m terrible when comes to sticking to a workout... I start one and lose motivation after a week or two. I’m getting married in May and would love to tone up -especially my arms/back areas...

Wedding is 6/1. I wanted To send invites in February. Most guests will be traveling for the wedding and it is adult only so will have to make child care arrangements. My sister/MOH thinks it’s way too...

Hey everyone! Just wanted to know what flavors you guys had for your wedding cake or what flavors you are thinking of for your wedding cake?