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Hi everyone, Has anyone gone to an Engaged Encounters weekend? FH and I are going this weekend and I am really looking forward to it. Any suggestions on what additional items to bring?

FW and I have been dancing around important planning decisions for nearly 7 months with no decisions being made due to her very specific vision for the wedding. I've not successfully managed to convey...

How do you create a wedding hashtag?

Met with my FW's priest a week ago and he was very adamant that he will not celebrate/consecrate a marriage where the groom does not plan on having children. It's been eating at me because I love my...

How long has everyone been with their fiancé before being engaged! I love knowing about how everyone's experience has been! For myself we dated for a year and 3 months when we got engaged!

Hello! I am curious what everyone is doing for their guestbook? I want to do something other than your standard book but haven't decided what yet. I was looking at log slab "guestbooks" but I am still...

Been looking into cake and catering options for an 80-person wedding and am kinda shaken by the prices. So far, the cheesecake FW wants comes out to about $12 a piece ($960 cake) with...

Can you ladies be awesome and help me out I'm torn. I have awesome ideas for both but i don't know. Have any or you held a bbq or Harry Potter reception before? Bbq is my favorite kind of food but,...

What would you say is the average but reasonable cost for a venue Food,alcohol and about 100 guests, I want to make sure I'm not getting over charged or undercharged, just want everything to be...

I know there was a thread similar to this before and if there's a way to search threads on mobile let me know! Recently I could tell my FFIL hasn't been feeling like he's apart of the wedding. I...

I got engaged a little over a month ago and I finally am starting to have time to look into wedding stuff. I was just curious how other people picked their colors? My FH is in the army and has decided...

This is the last piece I need to give to DJ. What is everyone doing?? I am at a loss

Are you doing table numbers or table names? If you're doing names, what are you doing and why? FH and I were having dinner with my parents last night and they asked us that question. I hadn't really...

My fiancée just picked her closest friend as her maid of honor, and everything was great until she submitted her plus one: he's my fiancée's ex-fiancé (hating this telenovela that is my life right...

Looking for advice on how to deal with my future Mother-in-law's attempts to torpedo our wedding. My fiancée's excitement about our nuptials has turned to crippling anxiety and she's no longer...

Hello! Do any of you have a "do not play" list that you're giving to your DJ? FH and I do not like country music so I'm tempted to ban it entirely but I have some guests who primarily listen to it and...

Ugh, I'm just going to warn y'all this is a vent of sorts. I just need a fucking cyber hug. I've been on here before and talked about how I The Dress and got one that was significantly cheaper (the...