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So my FH told me today that one of his five groomsmen is unable to wear the shoes that go with the tuxedo rental because he had a foot operation and the height doesn’t work for him. He’s going to...

Hey all, I have recently been asked (and accepted) my friend asking me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. My concern is that I am trans woman, but still very much identified male by most people. I am...

My ex bf who I dated in between my first husband and current fiancé is dating my FH cousin. Is it bad if she isn’t invited with a plus one? We had a bad breakup and it would be super awkward.

I know that part of getting married is merging two families into one. But my husband and I both have divorced parents and all four sets of parents live in the same city as us so it can be hard! I feel...

My wedding is September 1st 2018, so it's just right around the corner. I picked out and asked all my bridesmaids in February and my finance did the same with his groomsmen. I have been thinking about...

Sorry! Just need to vent a bit. FH's aunt came up to me the other day and started telling me how it's going to be so nice for her family to be dressed up and together (Black Tie New Year's Eve...

I am a bridesmaid and I wanted to know, for the bachorelette party, do we give a gift to the bride? or no? IDK what's the rule for that. Any direction would be gladly appreciated.

We started with a list of almost 300 people and had to cut it down to 150 which was tough. We addressed envelopes to exactly who was invited. If there is a gf, or bf of less than 6 months, they don't...

I’m so anxious and excited. We have been planning our future a a good amount of time now. Basically already planned the wedding as a rough draft lol. I am just really excited and I need to calm down...

I need some help/advice. I am 137 days out from my wedding on November 10th, and I am not excited anymore. I haven't been excited for awhile. The wedding planning is still on schedule according to...

So... My wedding isn't until December of 2019.. But I went wedding dress shopping today JUST to try on dresses and perhaps get an idea of something that I would like in the future.. Well.. I tried on...

I have seen a lot when someone ask for advice on how to save money people act like it is nothing to spend it. For a lot of us another 200 to 300 is a lot. So just going out and spending it is not a...

So I haven't officially decided on what to do here. I told my bridesmaids to start looking at ideas they liked and when we are ready to purchase everyone picks something they like, from the same...

My MOH and bridesmaids are all wearing the dress attached below but I want to find a way to make my MOH stand out from the rest of them. Any ideas? Originally I was planning on getting her a sparkly...

Maybe it's just me, but when I'm invited to a wedding, I am hyper-sensitive about this being a really important time in someone's life, a time that's also stressful...so I try to be as considerate as...

I think I'm posting for reassurance, or maybe to just get ideas from other folks that are in the process of getting married or are, but I'm getting a lot of negative feedback on my 1 year wedding...