Not excited anymore

I think if you can't share what's going on that does take the fun out of it some. Have you been planning nonstop or taking breaks so you don't get burnt out on it? LOL If you need to share I'll listen

I went in waves in terms of excitement as well. Is it just in regards to the wedding, or is this feeling cascading into other areas of your life?

Are you not talking about it with your FS? It really helps to try and involve them as much as possible. It keeps the excitement going even if it is ridiculous things.

I agree with PP. You have to take planning breaks. Take it on in small portions and take a break from it. FH and I focus on little bits and pieces at a time, meet and discuss, break, then onto the next wedding task.

That sounds like depression. Have you talked to your FH about this? Maybe consider talking to him, a therapist, a family member. If this is spilling into other areas of your life, then this is bigger than you wedding.

Just know, when I was in the planning stages, I went through a very blah time too. Looking back now, I sorta miss it. It's fun planning a special day with your best friend. I hope that this turns around for you soon!

Just as a sidenote, my name is Jennifer too. Just thought it was funny that 3 Jennifer's were chatting.

What excited you in the first place about getting married? If to you, nothing is changing, why did you want to tie the knot?

Try to recapture those feelings.

In our case, we wanted to formally commit ourselves in front of our friends and family and throw an awesome party to celebrate our love. It was a ton of work but an amazing day. My husband says he doesn't "feel" any different afterwards though and that's OK. It doesn't take away from what we did.

Maybe that's why it's not fun--- it's going so perfectly you need a wrench thrown in it.... jk I wouldn't wish that haha ... I think we all get excited at first then slows down because it's like "work" we have to get things done, once it gets closer it should get exciting again though

I was a little bored with planning about the same time you are at now. I think it was mainly because it still felt like it was so far away and there wasn't much for me to do at that time. If you are going to have showers and parties those will be coming up soon and once I got to those I became excited again. This point really is a lull until you get closer to the big day. Once the fall arrives it will begin to feel real and exciting again! Hang in there!!

Now the last 4-6 weeks you may get to the "whatever" stage. You will likely have so many people asking you questions about little details that your common answer becomes "whatever." LOL I had a conversation like that with the cake vendor, they called to ask what color ribbon I wanted on the top tier of the cake, I said pink. She asked me what shade of pink and my response was "I don't care, whatever, just pick one!" I was so tired of making last minute decisions by then and was just done! LOL

You've got plenty of time before your wedding. Take a break for a week or a few weeks. Maybe schedule "date night" or even some outdoor walks where you don't talk about the wedding.

I was on wedding burnout but 30 days before. Totally over it. But then the week before it got "real" and exciting (except the one blow-out we had because we were tenseeeee). Our entire DW trip and mini-moon were amazing.

We lived together for 2 years but being engaged was exciting. And our 1st year being married has been easier and even more fun/sweet than our 1st year of living together.