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Dedicated November 2018

Not excited anymore

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Jennifer, on June 25, 2018 at 4:35 PM

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I need some help/advice. I am 137 days out from my wedding on November 10th, and I am not excited anymore. I haven't been excited for awhile. The wedding planning is still on schedule according to wedding wires checklist, I still have things to do, but I am not excited. I am happy to be marrying my best friend, but we've been together for going on 8 years on November 8th, so nothing is going to change except my name. Did/does anyone else feel this way? Any advice to help snap me back into being excited? It could just be that everyone keeps changing things, but it's all for the better. And maybe also because no one else talks to me about the wedding or shows excitement. But I've knocked that down to it isn't anyone else's wedding, so why should they be excited.... I don't know... I just feel stuck.. sorry if I rambled.

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Jennifer · on June 25, 2018 at 5:48 PM
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Glad this this is normal. Everyone is saying that it gets better, and that this is something that we are going to look back on and miss this. So gotta stay positive.
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Jennifer · on June 25, 2018 at 6:00 PM
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Hopefully there will be celebrations, but I can't really count on anyone to show up thank you for your support. Hopefully it gets exciting again. Thank you
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Marie · on June 25, 2018 at 6:09 PM
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You should still feel the excitement I been with my FH for 18years this year and 3 children I'm still excited to walk down the aisle.
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Jennifer · on June 25, 2018 at 6:10 PM
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Thank you for that information. We are going to have a date night tomorrow, so hopefully that will help out.
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Jennifer · on June 25, 2018 at 6:13 PM
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That's awesome! I am still very happy to be with him, and that spark hasn't gone away. Its just everything else. You know? So happy for you though!
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Pirate & 60s Bride · on June 25, 2018 at 6:22 PM
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With so much time before the wedding, maybe at least two weeks/weekends off would be nice? No wedding talk. Try something different...play at a park, go out for ice cream dessert, rent bikes, see a free/cheap play at your community center. It'll help shake up the routine of wedding planning which gets old. Even living together you kinda get into a routine (my HD minds it less than I do, I need to mix it up).
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Kira · on June 25, 2018 at 8:57 PM
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I am getting married the same day as you and have recently been feeling the same way. I'm so excited to be marrying my fiance, but the planning is exhausting (my brain won't shut down)! I wish you all the best!
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Jennifer · on June 25, 2018 at 9:01 PM
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Thanks, and I wish you all the best as well! That's awesome! Wedding day buddies! I hope it gets better though, I know it feels like a huge bummer
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