Discussions I've participated in

What would YOU consider a deal breaker when looking for the right venue?

Hey all! Can you show me some of your beautiful jewelry? Bonus points if you recommend a place to look for shopping

I recently read that a backyard wedding could be more expensive than getting a venue. Has anyone experienced this? I'm at the beginning stages of planning and was hoping to use an amazing Airbnb I...

Hi All -- Anybody out there are planning or have gone to Oahu and Maui recently? My FH and I are heading there for 10 days (5 on each island) in a little more than a week, (squee!) and we have a list...

Having a small wedding planned myself with a count of 40 people including the wedding party. My issue is have already done my invitation list and my coworker is a party of this list alone with her sis...

I am super torn between 2 venues. One (MM) is completely DIY. It is just the venue I would have to organize or make everything. Two (PLR) is all inclusive and all I would have to do venue wise is...

Soo I'm thinking about adding a donut bar towards the end of the reception which will serve as our favors and a nice compliment to the coffee bar. I'm thinking of doing 3 flavors with one being a...

& how much are you spending? We're considering doing Sandals Recency la Toc in Saint Lucia, with sales right now for 7 nights in June, including airfare from Boston, it'll cost us about $4,500....

My FH and I moved in together shortly after getting engaged and we have been fighting about all kinds of stuff. We are both so frustrated with eachother sometimes. I love him and I still want to marry...

Help!! I'm having a hard time with the seating chart. How is the easiest way to go about this? I'm not necessarily having a hard time deciding who goes where but how to make it known to the guests....

I cried for 2 hours today as I thought about the reality that I have 10 days before the wedding. I keep feeling like I'm missing something even though I plan every day of my life. I had a meltdown...

My FH and his groomsmen are going shopping for their tuxes. It made me think...should our dads match the GM tuxes? Or maybe they match the tux but have different vests/ties, etc. Thoughts? What are...

I just got back a statement from my venue that shows a cake cutting fee of $3 per person (at $75, that is $225) We are not using one of their preferred vendors since my Aunt just...

FH and I are getting married at a beautiful location in the fingerlakes of NY, when we booked the venue I was very excited that we would now be within driving distance to the lake to do wedding...

We have no one to help us with money for the wedding, but we still want to make the best of our big day. Anyone know of good ways to stay classy and still save money?

Hi guys! Trying to keep on schedule with my checklist but it's like pulling teeth to get FH to sit down and make decisions with me. Right now the topic of discussion is wedding bands. FH is a...

Hey hey everyone, I am wondering how many hours everyone hired their photographers for your wedding? Our venue is all inclusive with the standard of 5 hours for our photographer but I am a little...

Here's the scoop - FH and I don't have much money, and the wedding is taking the majority of what we do have. His dream is to go to Scotland to visit the highlands (he's a huge Outlander fan). I took...

What are some of your must have pictures on your wedding day?