Discussions I've participated in

What is the etiquette with tipping vendors? Is 20% the norm? At our venue we have to pay a separate bartender fee (not $ for the alcohol) so do we still need to tip? Our hairdressers are also...

We are writing our own vows this week. I remember Celia saying something like "2 lines this, 2 lines that, 2 lines this, and done" but I cannot remember what her formula was nor can I find it. Anyone...

Sorry guys for all the recent posts- 11 days out and head is spinning! But honest opinions- what do you guys think of "Where is my Mind" by Pixies as a recessional song? I love the song and the beat,...

September brides how many days do yall have left before your wedding?

Hello! What is your bar cost per person? Just curious. Obviously we've got it all figured out at this point but just wondering what others spent.

While recently talking out the wedding with FMIL, she asked if several of her cousins and other family members are coming...they were never invited. Now they weren't intentionally not invited. Back in...

Silly thread but does anyone else hate the word hubby? My mom always refers to my FH as hubby to be and it makes me physically recoil lol. I can't be the only one. Also not a huge fan of wifey. Does...

For those going the traditional route, how are you planning on not bumping into groom or bride before ceremony? Both of us are getting ready at the same hotel, a small tiny inn. FH is also a smoker...

So I'm so excited for my bachelorette this weekend. My girls are taking me to Foxwoods for a Thunder Down Under show. Anyone ever been? Anyone going?

As I'm sitting here thinking about what I should be doing for the wedding, it's just not fun anymore. I'm 200 miles from my family and where the wedding is. FH and I have been talking about moving...

My wedding date is September 30th! 64 days out!! I started planning immediately when we got engaged last July so I've had all of my vendors since August! I feel like I haven't really done too much...

So after looking at some youtube videos of weddings at our venue, I'm nervous that our dance floor is way, way too small. It's 9X15 and we are hosting about 100 people. Obviously at this point I'm SOL...

As a distraction from planning stress, post your favorite wedding memes. This one resonates:

I'm having alterations done on 7/24 for my 9/9 wedding. I would like to lose a little bit of weight before the wedding (being realistic, it likely will only be 5 pounds). In a corset dress that's...

Background: I sent out STDs earlier this year, including to an acquaintance we'll call Kate. I decided to invite her because we are in the same circle of friends. At the time she had a boyfriend, but...