Discussions I've participated in

Before I go any further let me clarify (just read the cupcake post) - I have a severe tree nut allergy (to the point that a simple, accidental cross contamination sent me to the ER via ambulance)...

What are thoughts on speeches?? I know the best man & matron of honor are supposed to speak, but how does it work for parents?? Are both sets of parents supposed to speak? Or is one set supposed to...

I've purchased my dress, not doing any homework previously on what my style was, got my dress altered, train removed, added straps (i thought i didnt like trains, now i feel differently). And we have...

I am getting married in May. I have 6 bridesmaids, friends from college and friends I went to grade school with. I left them the task of planning a bachelorette party. What a big MISTAKE! I have 1...

Hi ladies! My wedding is 9 months away and as I am planning and going through this process, I found that there are a lot of things I wish I knew before I started doing everything. What are some things...

I'm my dream my photographer didn't show up nor did my cake baker. I didn't even notice till the next day! Then the photographer tried to blame me for her not having any pictures. It was so weird bc...

Who has plans for Halloween? Costumes? I've been married a month and moved to Seattle but I'll be driving back home go get more boxes of my stuff and while in town I'm grabbing lunch and coffee with...

So, apparently when this couple was married last month, their photog didn't show. So, a friend's (who was at the wedding) cousin who is a photog found out about it and decided to, on her own and free...

My absolute best friend, the one who will be standing next to me, is getting married 3 weeks before me. When I ask her, would I say "Will you be my Matron of Honor?" even though she won't be married...

I've recently started looking at wedding dresses and I'm feeling really conflicted. I've always pictured myself in a princess ballgown with lots of bling. But I asked my FH what he would like to see...

So most of you seen me in the dress I wanted but what's bothering me is I'm a size 16 in a dress I feel big what are some ideas for loosing some weight but that's not the problem it was my hips that...

Go I'm trying to find all giveaways i can enter to win as much as possible to make my wedding happen really want to enter all paid for wedding contest. My fiance is wheel chair bound and we just want...

Hi everyone! I know the topic of hand canceling has been discussed until we're all blue in the face, but I just don't know what to do! I sent out some test Save the Dates (we're sending out post...

Originally I wanted to have a videographer, photo booth, and a DOC. I'm starting to think we may have to cut one of these out. We really don't wanna go over budget with everything. The DOC is going to...

I've been married for a month and decided I don't want to change my name. H is throwing a huge childish tantrum and says if the wife doesn't take H's name then it's a fake marriage. I said it's not...

Had my guests checked off on a list? So, keep in mind that after the ceremony we're going to be getting on a steam train for 20 min and then getting on a river boat for a sunset cruise for the...

I'm having second thoughts about changing my last name. I really want to take my fh's last night but I can't help but feel sad about losing mine. Is this a normal feeling? Is there anyway I can have 2...