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I'm struggling.....with my mind feeling like jello from all the final details. What keeps me sane is outfit shopping My bridal shower will be coming up in a few weeks and as always I want to look...

We aren't having a dj. I think it will be an unnecessary expense. I don't see a ot of the guests dancing so it could be an expense. I want to dance with my FH but he probably won't dance until the...

Does anyone have any experience with this site? As far as I can see, their reviews are pretty solid but I would like more feedback in regard to the quality of the dresses. Also, what's the return...

Ordered the "tricks of the trade" dress from Lulu's and it's likely a no. Very see through, and idk how my bridesmaids won't pop out of the dress!! Show me your dresses and where you bought them! I...

I have been debating with myself if I should have the "tossing my bouquet" moment be an essential part of my wedding reception or not. It's traditional and I don't want it to be traditional, I want it...

How many days off before the wedding should I take? I'm planning the day before but should I take more than that?

So my husband and I got married 11 days ago and it's been great! But for the past 2 days, I've had wedding nightmares: an aunt of mine drove a car into my parent's house and destroyed their house,...

Was/is your ceremony & reception in the same room (Flip) or different rooms.

I am considering having our wedding end of May/early June in Texas. The ceremony would be outside and the reception is indoors. I am concerned about it being too hot or potentially raining day of. All...

Did/is your mom wearing the same color as grooms mom?

Okay so I am working on picking our processional song/songs and I'm trying to figure out how many we should do. I'm between doing just one song or doing two with it changing for my entrance. However I...

I have a photographer I'm super excited about, but am on the line about getting a videographer. Quotes I've gotten in Boston are like $2000-$4000 and beyond, which is money I could spend...

Hello all! We finished our DJ playlist last night (or almost all of it), but need suggestions for what songs to have as the last song or songs to walk into the reception to. I think we're doing...

How much did you tip your: -Photographer -DJ -HMUA -Venue Coordinator/DOC -Photobooth attendant -Officiant -Florist -Baker (Cake) Did you do a set amount or a percentage of their fee? Are there some...

Hey all, I'm considering putting flowers on every other table at the reception. The tables with flowers will have a big display and the tables without flowers will have floating candles and colored...

I know it is early to be thinking about programs but I am just trying to make mental lists. What are thoughts on programs? I find that some guests take them where others don't so it can kind of be a...

We just CANT decided. We are down to 2 choices. Sandals St. Lucia or Alaska. I know they are VERY different. Alaska just seems so adventurous, but St. Lucia is the typical beach honeymoon location. I...

I decided it was time so popped on down to the local social security office. It's a madhouse!! The lady next to me has been here for 2 hours. Ugh!!! Now I remember why I put this off.