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I would like to have a harp play me down the isle, has anyone had a harp player at their wedding? Where do I go about finding one?

A couple of my vendors (DJ and photographer) stipulate that if I cancel, they'll return my deposit only if they book another gig for the same date. Does anyone have experience with this policy? How...

FH and I have lived together for 9.5 years and don't need anything. We are setting up a honeymoon registry for guests to contribute to stuff for that. Can you read my website statement and let me know...

We're doing a vegetarian dinner in July. Right now the proposed menus are very carb-heavy, and I feel like we need some kind of "meaty" protein option--something with tofu, or maybe black-bean...

We are on a smaller budget and it has come time for me to decide what to do about the cake. Here's the thing: I don't really like cake in the first place, so I don't want to spend a lot of money on a...

So I just got my first proposal from a caterer, which is exciting but also terrible because it is so expensive (about $14,000 for 100 people). That includes linen and plates/glassware/etc. It...

Okay so we've decided on THE MONTH BUT NOT THE DATE- JULY 2016.... So i gotta ask if any brides have picked their date? And if so how far along are you into planning?? And What's one of the of the...

I'm trying to cut costs wherever I can--nixing the tent could save me well over $1,000. BUT the indoor area is a bit too small to fit all my guests. What do you guys think of al fresco dining...

I've just booked the Lyman Estate for my summer 2016 wedding, and I'm so excited! Has anyone here had their wedding there, or planning to do so? The venue costs about $2,000 more than I wanted...

Hello! In 2016, July 4 falls on a Monday. We're thinking of having our wedding on July 9, the following Saturday. There are very mixed opinions on having a wedding on a holiday weekend, but what do...