So I just got my first proposal from a caterer, which is exciting but also terrible because it is so expensive (about $14,000 for 100 people). That includes linen and plates/glassware/etc. It also includes a labor fee--and I think they MIGHT be providing unnecessary labor. (But I really have no idea, so I need your input!)
They're saying we need an event manager, six waitstaff, two bartenders, one steward (whatever that is), two chefs and two culinary staff for eight and a half hours. That's $4,000.
For a five-hour event (including the ceremony), with passed hors d'oeuvres and a stationary buffet and dessert, is that too much? Maybe I have room to negotiate here?