Discussions I've participated in

I am 31 and my fiance is 29, we both can't wait to have kids and a family of our own. However, we go back and forth on the subject, we would love to focus on our marriage for a year but feel like with...

I am in the northern NJ area, Italian, and the etiquette in my social circles is that you give a gift at the bridal shower, and then you give cash at the wedding. (No one gives a gift at the wedding,...

Some people find the train as an absolutely necessary part of their dress. The train expresses the grandeur of our wonderful wedding days. Others find the train as trouble that gets in the way and may...

Hi Everyone, I need help. I recently was engaged on Christmas Eve, with plans to get married in Nov 2024. One reason we wanted to do it in that time frame was because my dad had pancreatic cancer and...

If feels good to get 2 more important things checked off the list as being paid... The DJ and The Officiant is all taken care of. The only things left to pay is: Photographer Get Marriage License Get...

Hi ladies Just curious are you hiring a wedding planner, or are you doing it on your own? Are you having invites made or are you doing them on your own! What are you hiring vendors for and what are...

I have pretty bad social anxiety, so a lot of the elements of the wedding will be stressful for me. One of the things that helps with my anxiety is knowing what to expect/having a plan for what to do...

I am so confused about how to handle my seating charts. The way my venue is set up, there are twelve tables of twelve in the main ballroom, and there is a sunporch attached to the ballroom with...

What does everyone do about their shoes while taking photos on grass/dirt etc? I know that the inside hem of my dress will likely get a little dirty, but what to people do about their shoes? That...

So as of right now the wedding cake is included in our total price per person (which is expensive since I'm in northern NJ)- and it does include a ton of food during the cocktail hour and open bar,...

Hello everyone !! I am getting married on September 6,2025 and I am a bit overwhelmed although I have over a year left until my wedding. So far we have booked our venue/caterer/bar, decorator, DJ and...

What are some parts of the wedding your DJ asked you to pick music for? My DJ is not very communicative and we don't have our first real meeting with him until a month before the date. I'm someone who...

Hi all! So I was looking on Canva and they had some nice templates for escort cards. I like that I can type everyone's name onto the cards since I do not have the best handwriting. However, I am kind...