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Xandra

Hello! I am 19 and (not according to plan) we are getting ready for our baby that is due Novemeber 2nd, 2019. We are going to get married in April of 2019... View More

Hello! I am 19 and (not according to plan) we are getting ready for our baby that is due Novemeber 2nd, 2019. We are going to get married in April of 2019 because plans changed all of a sudden it was going to be on October 30th 2019. We are in need of basically everything for our sweet little baby as well as stuff for our wedding (now not going to be a big wedding) so I am going to be getting just a little amount of stuff and stuff for our home. We don't have a lot right now, basically enough for appointments and we are saving up for our due date for the sweet baby's arrival. I basically didn't make smart decisions and my parents and a lot of family as well as friends disowned me when I told them we were having a baby. I'm saving up for a car and almost have enough for a car, I put alot towards my car and enough toward appointments. My Fiancé is leaving for basic soon and we will have just enough for the babies due date and for an apartment when he gets back. Then he will leave one weekend a month and he will be doing his "gaming for money". We will basically have enough then, because once he gets back the National Gaurd said they would help give him enough to help with the baby. I'm not one to beg, I just need people who get what I'm going through, and if you would like I would very much appreciate help. I will provide the link below. As well as a snapshot on how to send gifts. Thank you for your help!

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April 10, 2019

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