Activity for Soon2Bemarried

Did you wait to see each other at the aisle or did you get a sneak peek of your spouse before your ceremony began? Photographer is now asking us which we prefer for portraits and I’m undecided.

I’ve secured both the ceremony and reception venue space but don’t know when’s a good time to make the wedding website.

Did you and your partner discuss who, if no both, would take care of/manage the upkeep of the home? Scheduling Doc’s appointments, doing grocery shopping and laundry, cleaning, cooking/meal prepping, etc. Did you decide on splitting the house work...

How do you properly and politely convey to your step parent that you do not want their participation financial or otherwise in your wedding plans, other than attending the wedding ceremony and reception as the spouse of your parent? This is a step...

Did you and your partner buy them for each other together? How long did you wait before the big day to buy your wedding bands?

There are varying degrees of this. What was your experience? Does ‘sharing’ expenses to you mean splitting equally, splitting based on your income or ‘I pay this fully you pay that fully’ ? We both pay for streaming subscriptions, split the phone...

Wedding Cake vs. dessert spread DJ vs. Spotify/Apple Playlist Cocktail Reception vs. Traditional sit down dinnerWedding Guest Book vs Marriage Advice Jar(s)What other things did you swap to make your special day more authentic to you and your...

Did you go into your relationship knowing you didn’t want any kids? When’s too early to have the conversation about having them? Was that a deal breaker?

Are bridal showers still only for women? My parents and grandparents told me baby showers used to only be a women’s event as well. Anywho, if I have a male coworker of childhood guy friends would it be weird to invite them to a bridal shower? Would...

Are couple’s shower’s a recent trend? Does anyone know about this. Pros & cons?

If my partner and my immediate family dont vibe and never did, is that my own fault? I’ve bizarrely been told told that if I prioritized them having a relationship with each other then I would have different results. While I think that’s none sense,...

How do the working mom’s balance work and maintaining your household? If you had kids before or after you were married, did that make anything easier or harder? My fiancé and I have been discussing how we’ll upkeep our household while working after...

Has anyone had a Cocktail Wedding Reception? What are the pros and cons? We’re You able to cut costs dramatically vs a traditional sit down wedding reception (with the dinner included)? Advice, tips or comments on both are appreciated!

My future MIL loves both her son and I, but I have a weird feeling that she feels like I’m taking her son away from her. I only started feeling this way since we got engaged. She’ll never verbalize it, because who would, but a woman feels that...

How did you decide, if you did at all, who gets a plus one? Are married couples priority over single people and people in relationships? Did you base the plus one off how long the person was in a relationship for or was it guilt of knowing they...