Discussions by Yourlilfig

I'm so excited! The rehearsal went well and hibachi dinner was an excellent choice. It gave everyone the perfect atmosphere to chat and get to know each other. It couldn't have gone better! I simply...

I spent days making programs that have FH's brother listed as a reader. He told us tonight that he likely won't be doing it, he will confirm tomorrow. I'm essentially 4 days days from the wedding....

Last year I was informed what an "idiot" I was for not knowing that the flower girl "always" attends the bridal shower. It turned into a family disaster and grudges are still held (even though the...

I was wondering if it's expected that there will be dessert at the rehearsal dinner? Both FH's parents and my own asked about cake and we hadn't planned on it. We're having hibachi and I feel like no...

We have paid off all of the vendors that we are responsible for! I made the last payment this afternoon! All we have left to pay for are tips and hair/make up the day of. I am so excited that we're...

FH and I really enjoy big band, swing type music and we were thinking about having our DJ play it at our reception. What do you guys think? Will guests hate it? Do you think people will dance? We...

So, I use an app to track/predict my period. My period was predicted for the entire week leading up to and including my wedding. The issue there is that I get a migraine from start to finish, I vomit,...

When does the unity ceremony happen? Before rings/vows or after? I can't seem to find a straight answer. Thanks!

So, my Mom broke one of the rules of social media and posted about my upcoming wedding. A relative who isn't invited commented that his invitation must have gotten lost in the mail. *sigh* I told her...

Before I even started online dating myself,I began receiving these really strange text messages from strange men during the night. Texts turned into phone calls. One night I answered one of these...

I feel like I have reached the point in wedding planning where I just want to be done. The whole shower fiasco has stressed me out. We've had mini problems- like the tux shop losing the best man's...

I hate dresses and skirts. I don't own any. I look awful in white. My mom told me that I need to go buy a white dress....what is considered proper attire?

So, I had posted last week about my MOH not doing the invitations for my shower (she offered) until the very last minute. We ended up e-viting, as was suggested here and I'm glad we did because people...

Do people tend to give a gift for the shower and a separate gift for the wedding? Just the shower? Just the wedding? Not for either? If you are invited to a shower, but don't attend, should you send a...

I dreamed that I went with my other choice for my dress, I had been down to two-the fluffy ivory one that I chose and a blush ball gown. I had my fitting at the store and they said it was fine, but I...