Discussions by The Sealpups

I know this question is weird but in this case- let’s say that you’re asking someone to be bridesmaid and she lives in another state. The only thing you request is that she shows up to the wedding-...

I guess this is more of a philosophical question. I know most of us brides worry about whether people can attend or not. Realistically, I’ve accepted that not everyone will be able to attend. As a big...

Our date is on September 1st (yes, labor day weekend). Our families typically do not travel, so we thought it would be perfect, especially since we would be getting the next day off. More than half of...

Most of our guests are coming from out of town. Luckily, we have a hotel right across the street from our venue and another one 3 minutes away. I've read that you can filter out and do a search...

I've mentioned in another discussion that my MIL is really wanting her newborn granddaughter as a flower girl. Fiancé and i agreed that having a baby would be too stressful and would take away...

I was single for most of my 20's and was hounded for it, "when are you going to get a boyfriend?" When I was dating my now fiancé, I purposely hid in the bathroom when bouquet tosses were happening -...

My colors will be a mix & match of neutral colors (cream, champagne, taupe, and a blush). My sister is my MOH and I don't mind if she's the "Pippa Middleton" of our wedding. If anyone is going to...

Our wedding will be in September - we booked the church and venue site for the reception. In my experience, the coordinator for the church hasn't been answering many questions (she only seemed...

I know I definitely don’t want a baby included in the wedding party- it’s too much work and stress. My fiance’s sister just had a baby and I had a feeling his mom was going to push and have her be a...

In my experience, I don't see a point when everyone just asks me (and you can tell I'm getting very annoyed with this post). I've just texted or messaged people for the addresses to send these "save...

I'm not as lucky as most of you and unfortunately, my fiance & I have alot of nosy people in our family who love to talk, gossip, and ask nosy questions without shame. There's no such thing as...

I’m planning to have a neural palette of cream, blush, beige,taupe, gold with different styles (all long gowns), one sequin, one plain, and one embroidered. I’m keeping this a surprise and have just...

For example: i’m Loving these invitations on minted (it’s a special design that’s exclusively from them) but the wedding website I would like to have it under (Zola) does not have that specialized...

I've had this friend for more than 10 years and in recent years, I could feel that we were growing apart. She seems to think we're the same person and need to be in the same stages in life & I can...

They’re both controlling by nature but his sister is more aggressive and his mother is more passive about it. Since we got engaged last year, they’ve been planting seeds in our head about what we...

I'm planning to have our ceremony at church and then our reception at a venue nearby. For church, we'll definitely have programs. For the party, I'm thinking of ditching it altogether. My fiance and I...

My fiance & I are both family oriented - we have both of our parents side that are close to and considered inviting. I don't want this "Big fat Greek wedding" kind of party. I thought 150 was fair...

Hello! My fiance and I come from this culture where everyone in your family and their family's families are expected to be invited to a wedding. We are keeping it at 150 people (preventing a "My Big...

I just got in touch with my photographer and he sent me links to where he's shot before. Where I'm from - our state has some of the most beautiful scenic/nature shots (mountains, trees, water,...