Happily married 🎉
October 31, 2020
Discussions
15I want something different than a white dress or a black suit (we’re a queer couple, my fiancé will most likely be wearing a white dress). I love this beaded tunic set from Zuhair Murad but am not...
FW and I talked last night and decided to cancel the big wedding we were planning (130 people and a budget of $45k.... Fairfield County, CT is tough). Only deposit we put down was the venue...
Hi everyone, my FW and I are getting married Halloween 2020. We LOVE Halloween, but are staying away from bright orange and skeletons and such so we get a more formal feel. We’re going for a moody...
How are you handling wedding planning with all its gendered expectations?
I do stained glass and am planning on making the favors for ~90 guests. I’m looking for ideas for fairly simply sun catchers with just a few pieces. We’re getting married on Halloween, we’re a queer...
Hi all, I’m reworking my budget today and trying to get a better idea on how much we’re going to have to spend on alcohol. We’re planning on 100 guests, and just having wine, beer and cider, and two...
Hi all, my FW is very much into conservation and would like our wedding to be as eco friendly as possible. Something we have discussed is forgoing paper STDs and invitations and putting all the...
A week ago our reception venue was listed as $2200.... today I checked and it went up to $3500!!! we only haven’t booked it yet because you can only book two years in advance (wedding is...
I’m going to be making stained glass favors with bevels and pressed leaves (fall wedding). I plan to have them attached to each households name with their table number (we’re just doing assigned...
How do you decide how much wine vs beer vs cocktails to have? We’re buying the alcohol ourselves and having two kinds of red and white wine, 2 types of beer, one type of cider, and two signature...
What readings are you having during your ceremony? Here’s the one I’m doing, it’s by the minister of my church from my childhood, where the ceremony will be held: The gods got together to make this...
My FW and I put this together after finding out our venue will allow us to start the reception at 6 instead of 7 (yay!!) Please let me know if you have any suggestions/comments! Sunset is at 5:50, do...
My FW and I are a queer non traditional couple. We decided awhile ago that we won’t take either of our last names (neither of us have ever felt attached to them) and instead create a new last name...
Hi everyone! i’ve tried out a lot of different hashtag generators but since our married name is a bit different (Kind) and has an alternate meaning, I was wondering if anyone had any advice. So far...
After some change of plans, my FW and I have found a reception venue we love. However, you can only rent it from either 12-4 or 7-11. They do allow you to pay $300 for an extra set up hour, but...