Discussions by Futuremrsm

Anyone else in a lull of planning? My wedding isnt until october 2020 and I don't have anything to do! Venue, photographer, dj and officiant are already booked. Florist and cake are through the venue....

Anyone having people say that the groom's opinion doesn't matter because it's "your" day? I haven't felt this way at all, and I've been going into all wedding planning with the thought that its OUR...

So i asked my sister to be one of my bridesmaids. When i asked her i gave her a cute box with gifts in it and just said "i guess" to the question in it of if she wanted to be a bridesmaid. She has...

So my and my FH are not having a traditional wedding by any means. He is really close with his grandfather, and has decided that he wants to ask him to be his best man. This is super sweet and will...

So I have a family member that i don't like. My cousin is really selfish. Whenever she shows up to family events she usually just eats and leaves. Never brings other people presents to Christmas etc....

Does anyone else have this problem? My FH and I have really good jobs, and make really good money. We don't disclose to our family how much we make, but they know we're not struggling. We both are...

So i have a guy best friend, and i want to include him in the wedding ceremony. He is an awesome guy and means so much so me so not including him would really suck. My FH already has more groomsmen...

So my dad is not nice to me, and honestly treats me like crap. That being said to avoid any drama I am still allowing him to be invited and walk me down the aisle. However, i absolutely do not want to...

So is it always assumed that bridesmaids are paying for their own dresses unless stated otherwise? I'm going shopping with one of my girls this week and I just want to make sure she knows that she's...

Any brides out there have stretched ears? I'm having trouble finding some classy jewelry for my wedding day. I've checked etsy but all i see are the diamond type plugs that just look gaudy on me.

Are a flower girl and ring bearer necessary? I have a ton of kids in my family, but i dont think any of them are well behaved enough to be in the wedding. Ive been to plenty of ceremonies where the...

What is everyone doing for ceremony music? I was originally going to ask my DJ if he could put another speaker outside for the ceremony and play the music and that was an extra $400!!!...

Has anyone every been to/honeymooned in Reykjavik iceland? My FH and i are between iceland and england, (but i realllyyy want to go to iceland). Can anyone recommend hotels and stuff to do?

So I'm not too fond of wedding hashtags, but i figure we should have one so we can find photos if people post them. So i need help making one. Future last name is Magee, wedding is in 2020 and is...

Has anyone out there had, or is planning to have a halloween themed reception? We're doing that, minus the costumes. People are giving their insight, which i don't care about, but i feel like everyone...

So i have a lot of tattoos. On my wedding day about 3 of them will show, i have a half sleeve, one on my forearm and one on my back. My grandmom is old fashioned and says that i wont look "classy"...

So i recently asked my grandmom if she had a piece of jewlery of hers that i could wear on my weddint day. She offered a necklace that my poppop had gotten her, since its opal and our wedding bands...