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Your Day Your Way is a wedding officiant service providing custom ceremonies for couples planning to be married in San Luis Obispo County, California. This area includes the popular destinations of Paso Robles and Pismo Beach. Owner and officiant Rita is a non-denominational officiant dedicated to making your union meaningful and memorable for you. She collaborates closely with couples to create unique and personal ceremonies that reflect who you are as a couple. In addition to officiating weddings, she is an award-winning author, an experienced national speaker, and the mother of an adult child with special needs. The profits she accumulates from this service are donated to services that support people like her child. She is currently contributing profits to rebuild Camp Krem, a camp for special needs children and adults destroyed in the 2020 CZU California wildfire.

Services Offered

Get the ball rolling by reaching out to Your Day Your Way for a friendly chat. Rita will walk you through all the options, helping you to find a ceremony style that suits your needs and desires. She is available to cover Christian and non-denominational unions and does her best to incorporate rituals and beliefs significant to you. She allows couples to exchange their own vows and offers her support with the writing process. It means a lot to her to be part of your special day and she looks forward to celebrating your love.

  • Woman-owned

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What is the typical price for your wedding services?


Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal

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Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?


What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

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Vanessa R. Married on 09/16/2023
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Amazing Experience

Rita is super nice, down to earth and very responsive. She was the finishing touch to our wedding and provided us with the nicest vow format. She had plenty of templates to choose from and let us cut out whatever we didn't want. She showed up to rehearsal on time and was very patient with me and my wedding party. The service was affordable and well worth it! She took care of our wedding license paperwork and answered questions even after the wedding. I would highly recommend her for your wedding.
Daniel N. Married on 11/07/2022
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Rita is an amazing Officiant

Rita was so accommodating and easy to work with. She was there at every step of the way providing us suggestions and tailoring our ceremony to reflect the both of us. People had asked us how long we had known her because of how genuine/personal the ceremony felt. We would DEFINITELY recommend her.
Sonia G. Married on 09/18/2021
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Far exceeded our expectations!

We automatically clicked with Rita the first time we spoke. She went above and beyond and far exceeded our expectations!! She made us feel as if we've known her our whole lives!! Words could not describe the gratitude we have for her. We wish we could adopt her as one of our tias!! We will forever be thankful for the love she shared with us before and on our wedding day. She completed our fairytale day. Thank you so much!
Love, Sonia and Eric
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