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"With These Rings" gives couples the opportunity to make their own wedding bands through private instruction. PNW jeweler, Stephanie Tomczak Selle, invites you into her studio and guides you every step of the way in creating your own custom wedding bands. You will work together from the initial design process to fabricating beautiful, handmade, professional quality rings. By making each others rings they will be rich with your own memories and love, in a way that store bought rings never can.

With These Rings is located in Port Townsend, a Victorian seaport town on the Olympic Peninsula in Washington State. We are less than two hours from Seattle and about three and a half from Portland, OR. But we are happy to say that work with couples from all over the country! Please visit our website for travel information to the Pacific Northwest.

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Cassandra Married on 06/10/2023
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Amazing experience & lovely rings!

We had the best time making our wedding bands with Stephanie. I highly recommend this to anyone looking for a meaningful, memorable, and super fun experience. The rings themselves turned out perfectly and the process was easy to understand. Plus, Port Townsend is such a fun community to visit - the whole weekend was an amazing time and a highlight of the wedding process. I think it will only be outdone by the wedding itself.
Melissa R. Married on 09/17/2022
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Just do it.

This was one of the best experiences that my husband did while planning our wedding. Getting married is already so amazing, but the symbolism to make each other's ring is unforgettable. Stephanie has created a space where you can make a forever memory with your special someone. It is a way that we could support a small business, not a large corporate company. Highly recommended, don't think about it, just do it!
Ryan T. Married on 07/07/2022
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Superb Stephanie!

Stephanie simply offers a masterclass experience for anyone & everyone. My fiancee and I were astounded with Stephanie's professionalism, knowledge, and most of all, her ability to convey that precious knowledge in a succinct way to pedestrian jewelers like ourselves.

Her encouragement & clarity was perfection from start to finish. We had to reschedule several times due to the unexpected interruption of this little thing called Covid-19. She malleably navigated the swift shifts of the pandemic with grace & clear communication.

I could not recommend Stephanie & her craft any higher. My partner & I will sacredly remember our time with Stephanie for the rest of our lives. Go be a jeweler for a day, you'll thank yourselves for the rest of your life.
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Happy Heart Ceremonies Happy Heart Ceremonies Wedding Officiants

Stephanie, the owner of With these Rings, is absolutely incredible and a joy to work with! She works alongside each and every one of her couples to ensure they have a one-of-a-kind experience and have fun creating unique and beautiful rings for one another. A true professional, Stephanie is skilled, detail oriented, knowledgeable, friendly and honest. This is one of the best experiences you can have leading up to your special day!

MJ Photography MJ Photography Wedding Photographers

Every time I'm asked to photograph a couple making rings in With These Rings studio I am overjoyed! Stephanie's studio is a place where couples spend their day laughing, learning, and crafting a symbol of love that they will treasure forever. As a photographer I spend a lot of time observing. I have watched as Stephanie carefully instructs and guides her clients. She steps in with just enough assistance at just the right times. Her ability to teach, coupled with her skill as a talented jeweler, ensures that every ring created in this studio is of the finest quality. After shooting over a dozen couples in her studio I can confidently say that opting to make rings at With These Rings will be one of the best decisions you and your partner could make.

Heartfelt Ceremonies Heartfelt Ceremonies Wedding Officiants

"With These Rings" is a unique business, and a special way to have an interactive relationship with a couple who are getting married. The rings they will wear for a lifetime become custom made, treasured keepsakes. This is an intimate, creative and lasting reminder of their decision to join their hearts and lives.


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