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Weddings By Design is a wedding officiant service based in Brewster, Massachusetts. Officiant Lucinda Graham is a Professional nondenominational Wedding Officiant and has a passion for people and weddings of all backgrounds. She offers her clients endless options for customizing their vows and is very flexible. She believes in serving any couple, regardless of orientation or spiritual beliefs, and is available for elopements and renewals.

Services Offered

Weddings By Design can perform wedding ceremonies for traditional, non-traditional, religious, secular, and interfaith couples. Lucinda works alongside couples every step of the way to ensure their vision comes to life. Her services include vow renewals and pre-marital counseling. She is available to wed couples throughout Cape Cod from Provincetown to Bourne and all in between!! Hope to hear from you, Cindy.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$75

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$70

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Presbyterian
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

MA

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Weddings By Design

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Couples praised the officiant for excellent communication, responsiveness, and flexibility, helping craft personalized, meaningful ceremonies (including sand and blended-family elements) and guiding vows. She was professional, calm under pressure, and helpful with paperwork and logistics. Many highly recommend her services for intimate elopements and weddings.

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Couples praised the officiant for excellent communication, responsiveness, and flexibility, helping craft personalized, meaningful ceremonies (including sand and blended-family elements) and guiding vows. She was professional, calm under pressure, and helpful with paperwork and logistics. Many highly recommend her services for intimate elopements and weddings.

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Vanessa Sent on 05/14/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Thank you!

Lucinda was by far the most responsive and communicative vendor we dealt with for our wedding. She made sure to go over every detail well in advance and offered plenty of opportunity for input and/or customization of the vows and ceremony.
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Michayla Sent on 05/02/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Cindy is a total darling

My husband and I decided rather quickly to elope while on a planned vacation. I contacted Cindy and she was kind, responsive, flexible, and a joy to have as a part of our special day. She worked with me as I wrote an adaptation of an Anglican rite by providing me with samples of weddings she’s done before. Her deliver was beautiful, and I’d recommend her to anyone! 10/10.
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Hannah Sent on 11/22/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Ceremony

Working with Cindy was such a smooth process, she was extremely attentive and created the wedding ceremony of our dreams! We highly recommend working with her if you are looking for an officiant!
Bethany
Bethany Sent on 06/02/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Day

Lucinda (Cindy) was wonderful. Her communication was superb. She helped us tweak our vows to include a blended family sand ceremony and a memorial mention of our deceased parents. Her kindness and thoroughness was much appreciated making our special day perfect. I would highly recommend Cindy.

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Sarah
Sarah Sent on 01/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Just Perfect!

Cindy was the friendliest, professional but down to earth officiant. She met us way in advance with options of her own and open to suggestions before we even agreed to have her officiate. She had multiple vows/ceremonies available to look over. This alone made us choose her! We chose the sand ceremony. She was very knowledgeable and stayed in touch throughout the process up until the wedding day. She made everything seem so simple and easy. 10/10 recommend!!
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Caitlin Sent on 11/13/2023
5 out of 5 rating

The Sweetest Elopement with Cindy!

From the moment my fiancé and I reached out to Cindy, she was in constant communication and helped us design the perfect ceremony for our intimate elopement at the beach. We love how comfortable we felt talking with her and sharing our story of how we met. She made our day so special, and the ceremony itself was seamless and so meaningful. Thank you, Cindy!!
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Maggie Sent on 10/30/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Cindy is so great!

Cindy was so awesome. She showed up from the very first phone call with patience and ease to help us create a beautiful ceremony that we will remember forever! She even showed up on our wedding day in the midst of a hurricane warning, that turned out to be just a scare and an incredible day! Thank you so much for everything Cindy!
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Jen G. Sent on 10/17/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Great ceremony

Cindy was great! We had a small beach ceremony. Cindy offered the idea of a sand ceremony. We had never heard of this before but it was perfect - exactly what we didn’t know we needed. Cindy was a true pleasure to work with. Highly recommend!
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Hannah Sent on 10/02/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Awesome and easy!

Lucinda from Weddings by Design was the perfect choice for us on our wedding day. She helped us through choosing what our ceremony would look like and took time to get to know us and our stories so that we would have a truly personalized wedding. The day of the wedding was pretty hectic but she was a big help by being ready to go and finding the ceremony location through all the chaos. Thank you Lucinda!
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Mikayla Sent on 09/26/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely perfect!

Cindy was great! She was able to assist us with writing our ceremony and with obtaining our marriage license! She was very responsive in all email contact. I would recommend her to everyone! She made our day perfect!
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Awards

73
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

4 Endorsements
Cape Tunes Cape Tunes Wedding DJs

Lucina is the consummate professional. Always early, prepared, in great spirits and a pleasure to work with!

Iris Hotel - Cape Cod Iris Hotel - Cape Cod Hotel Weddings

Cindy is wonderful to work with. She works closely with couples to design their special vows and adds touches of their own personality into the ceremony making it uniquely their own. With years of experience and the beautiful advice she shares with her clients, your wedding day will certainly be unforgettable.

Dj Steve Binder Dj Steve Binder Wedding DJs

Lucinda Graham (Cindy) weddingsbydesign - Does a phenomenal job for her clients! I highly recommend her services!!

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