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A great wedding ceremony captures the essence of the couple, creates a feeling of magic, tells a beautiful love story, makes people laugh and cry, gives you goose bumps and leaves you and your guests saying wow. It creates a memory that will last a life time!

As an interfaith minister, I have had the joyous privilege of marrying hundreds of couples since beginning my ministry in 1996 . I believe your marriage ceremony is the most important part of the wedding day! The rest of your day centers on this one celebratory moment, which creates the foundation upon which your lives are built.

Let YOURS be something truly magnificent!

Faith Lavender

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Premarital Counseling

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$100

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Interfaith
Vow Renewal

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Baha'i Faith
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
No Denomination
Pagan
Quaker
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

MA

Reviews of Cape Cod Ceremonies

Jocelyn
Jocelyn Sent on 08/16/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Magical Ceremony!

If you want your wedding ceremony to perfectly capture the true essence of your relationship and love story, Faith will absolutely blow you away with how thoughtfully and intuitively she weaves together every detail, emotion, and moment into a harmonious and unforgettable experience. Like many others, our wedding had to be rescheduled more than once and Faith was SO flexible, reassuring, and positive through every moment.

I come from a family of wedding photographers and have had the privilege to witness many of Faith’s ceremonies through the years. She officiated my sister’s wedding in 2015 but I knew long before then there was no one else I’d rather have officiate mine!

She took all the care in the world to understand our journey as a couple, incorporating the romance and joy from both of our perspectives to craft the most personalized and beautiful ceremony. People have continued to tell us how moving and special our ceremony was, and have even been told that it inspired some of our friends’ ceremonies!

Faith’s ability to create an atmosphere of warmth, authenticity, and magic is unparalleled, and we are so grateful to her for sharing this important day with us. Thank you, Faith, for EVERYTHING! Love, Jocie and Riley
Cassidy
Cassidy Sent on 08/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Scott Elliot made the day!

Working with Reverend Scott Elliot was truly one of the best decision we made for our wedding day. From the beginning we felt that Scott took a genuine interest in getting to know us and help us envision our perfect ceremony. At first, we were hesitant to write and read our own public vows in front of our guests but with Scotts help it was the best decision we made and we are so grateful that we did.

Scott helped us write and edit our vows but more importantly instilled us with the confidence which ended up being such a special moment. Scott designed the perfect ceremony - our guests continue to share that it was the most beautiful and touching ceremony they have witnessed. We would highly recommend Scott for your wedding ceremony!
Amy
Amy C. Sent on 07/30/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Have Faith in Rev. Faith!

Rev. Faith Lavender was such an important and special part of our wedding. Her personality is warm and attentive, as she spent a lot of time with us on zoom calls and reading our personal information and love story. She personalized our ceremony as if she had known us for years. Many guests commented on what a special and unique ceremony it was. Guests especially liked listening to Rev. Faith tell about how we met and what we love about each other. They also loved passing our rings around, holding them to their hearts, and embuing them with their love and prayers. Rev. Faith is one of those special people that knows how to touch the hearts of others. I am grateful to have found her- she made the most important part of the day magical for everyone.
Greg
Greg Sent on 10/15/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Put your faith in Faith Lavender.

Planning a wedding ceremony is serious work. Being able to distill a couple's love story into an awesome ceremony must be such an undertaking, but Faith Lavender absolutely nailed our ceremony from the jump.

Faith's ceremony perfectly captured us, our love story, and how to truly convey that to our friends and family. As true wedding newbies, it was so beneficial for us to have her guiding light shine on our experience. We greatly appreciate the time that she took to hop on Zoom with us before our wedding and to also huddle up with us right before the ceremony when the jitters and slight chaos of the moments before our wedding started to set in. Faith's recognized the moment that we both needed before our ceremony like a true pro. That awareness, in addition to her spectacular preparation certainly did not go unnoticed by us.

If you're looking for an officiant to truly give your wedding the tender love and care it needs, Faith Lavender will answer the call.
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Charleen Sent on 05/16/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding ceremony awesome!

Faith Lavender was so helpful and took the time to get to know us personally in order to write a remarkably personalized ceremony! She gave us the tools and insight so that we weren't intimidated writing our own vows, checked in on us throughput, and delivered a beautiful wedding ceremony! We couldn't be happier with how it all turned out. Faith even said a prayer for us to be able to have an outdoor wedding, and it worked for us! Our day was perfect! Bless you Faith!
Angela
Angela Sent on 11/04/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Warm & Intimate

Reverend Faith made our day so special and really took the time to get as many personal details into our ceremony as she could. It was so warm and intimate, funny and impactful. Thank you!!!
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Alison Sent on 01/06/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Unique to us as a couple!

Faith made our ceremony extremely unique and special to us as a couple. We worked with her over the course of two years due to having to reschedule our first wedding date due to Covid. She would check in with us regularly over the two year span. We were able to meet with her both in person and on Zoom, which was extremely convenient. She was also very easy to get in touch with via email. She spent time crafting a ceremony to fit us and what we had always hoped for. Being both Catholic and Protestant, Faith worked to find the right balance between religious and spiritual. Our guests said our wedding was the most intimate ceremony they have ever been a part of and this is all thanks to Faith!
Stephanie
Stephanie Sent on 10/24/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Meaningful Ceremony

Wedding planning may be stressful, but working with Faith was anything but! I can’t write enough positive words to describe our experience. Faith brings a beautiful spirituality to the ceremony without pushing any particular religion or mindset. She puts her heart and soul into crafting a personalized ceremony for each couple. She met with my husband and I multiple times on Zoom and took the time to get to know us so that she could put together a ceremony that represented each of us perfectly. Not only were the words beautiful, she also provided helpful tips on how to stand and speak during the ceremony, which was much appreciated! The energy and experience Faith brings to the table is priceless. I highly recommend working with Faith if you dream of having a unique, meaningful ceremony as a part of your wedding day.
Rachel
Rachel Sent on 07/15/2021
5 out of 5 rating

An amazing personalized ceremony!

Rev. Faith Lavendar made our ceremony so very special! Workin with Faith from the very beginning was an absolutely pleasure. She was processional, kind, and gave us fantastic tips for the day of to ease our nerves and create a seamless ceremony. It was such a personalized ceremony and we got so many compliments for that. There wasn’t a dry eye in the room! Thank you for making our day extra special. We can’t thank you enough!
Erin
Erin Sent on 11/19/2019
5 out of 5 rating

A perfect ceremony!!

My husband and I had NO idea what we wanted in a ceremony. Faith patiently talked with us and coaxed out what we would like then wrote a ceremony that was completely perfect. It was beyond anything we had hoped for. Many of our friends and family commented on how much they loved it. We cannot recommend Reverend Faith Lavender enough.
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